Have you ever been fetishized or felt like you were being fetishized by a black man or white woman?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by 4north1side2, Nov 8, 2022.

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  1. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    It gets no safer than this.

    These young ladies seem to just be silly young people. I say let them have fun, even if it feels pretty cringy to watch. As a guy without 'swag', I don't think these women are as attracted to black men as they are to mass media conceptions of what black men are, do, etc.
     
    orejon4, Dec 16, 2024
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  2. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    It depends on what you mean by "direct conversation" and what you're looking to get out of it.

    Private messaging is not an option in the Forums at this time, and using the forum threads to directly question women here to see if they're interested in the "arrangement" you posted about, then no. If you're looking for either of those things, use the Personals.

    Otherwise, as long as it doesn't violate site guidelines, converse away.
     
    Tamstrong, Dec 16, 2024
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  3. breanna03

    breanna03 Active Member

    oh gosh I forgot I shared this. now I'm embarrassed :oops:
     
    breanna03, Dec 17, 2024
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  4. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Don't be. Clearly you have inspired the guy to new heights of bravery and boldness in coming on to you.
     
    orejon4, Jan 1, 2025
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  5. JessBlondie

    JessBlondie Member

    Yes
     
    JessBlondie, Jan 1, 2025
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  6. denisemilanifan

    denisemilanifan Active Member

    Yeah this woman on our first date told me she was addicted to athletic blackmen like me and couldn't control herself around them. Really weirded me out.
     
    denisemilanifan, Jan 7, 2025
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  7. beccaomecca

    beccaomecca Well-Known Member

    I've never fetishized (feel like I have a speech impediment saying that word lol) but I supposed I have craved.
     
    beccaomecca, Jan 7, 2025
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  8. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I don't know how I'd feel about the use of the word 'addicted'. Sounds like she just holes up in her bedroom in the bed all day waiting for service.
     
    orejon4, Jan 10, 2025
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  9. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    More of the sort of thing we’re trying to avoid…

     
    orejon4, Feb 16, 2025 at 9:36 PM
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  10. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Sadly, avoiding them is damn near impossible around here. They're pests like the roaches that you'd expect to inhabit the type of cheesy motels they're probably using for those "no string's motel hookups" they're looking for. Would it be too cruel to treat them as such...stomp on them when we see them, and periodically fumigate the site when the infestation gets out of hand?

    On another note, am I the only one who gets annoyed when idiots use apostrophes to make words plural? It irks the hell out of me when people do that. lol
     
    Tamstrong, Feb 17, 2025 at 11:20 PM
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  11. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    LOL! You are definitely not the only one. I get pissed at myself whenever I slip and send one while using voice text. Bugs the hell out of me. That, and the constant 'you're' for 'your' and 'they're' or 'there' for 'their'. Careful there, Tam. You're inner writer is showing!

    As for the roaches, spray, set traps, fumigate, whatever it takes!
     
    orejon4, Feb 18, 2025 at 9:43 AM
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