Random Conversation 2.0

I was going to ask the group should a man under 5'9 have any business on a dating site. Then I checked out my dating profile. One woman added my profile to their favorites list, & another flirted at me. Guess I got my answer.

 

I have seen short men with tall supermodels, ones height has nothing to do whether a man can attract the opposite sex or not !! Some women are very short and they have serious issues with their height therefore they look for men who have what they don't have i.e height or wealth etc. You keep raising the topic of height few times here which means; this shit is bothering you LOL.

 

Why are you LOLing this man for being bothered by height related issues when 99.99 % of the dudes actively posting on this site have hang ups around race/gender/relationship issues as a whole?

 

I am not making fun of others struggles Ra, everybody has their own problems they have to deal with, the brother in question is no different than the rest of us, if I remember it was you who said any man's height shouldn't be an issue, I'm making the same point.

 

No you're not. Otherwise you could have just not replied to to his post at all. Adding "LOL" at the end of your post & definitely not with asking why does it bothers him so much is not making the same point. Notice CAkicker has not & will not reply back to your post because he read your post in the same mean-spirited & shaming way that I & I'm quite sure other folks seeing it did.

Self awareness is clearly a character/personality trait lacking in a majority of posters, both men & certain women, on this particular site. Either that or they are consciously being assholes in the effort to troll for attention.

 

Personally, I didn't take it as a jab towards CA. I see it as 2Legit put an LOL at the end of the paragraph to try to lighten what seems to be a heavy situation for our friend CA. In my view he provided him with assurity that not all women care for height and that's purely the message he was trying to relay, in my view. If he didn't care he wouldn't have commented at all.

 

CA please know you have every right to be on a dating site, whether your 8ft tall or 2 inches tall. The right one is going to love you for you, exactly how you are.

 

Fair point. But I know CAkicker himself didn't read that post the way you did. I'll just leave it at that.

 

I couldn't have said it better. I owe you one.

 

Money can almost always solve any man's problems, they say. Money talks, bullshit walks, which is true. For any man or woman who suffers from extreme anxiety about their height, there is a medical procedure. I've googled today as I was thinking about this topic that's called "Limb lengthening surgery," but the shit is expensive in America and Australia, $120,000 per person. It's cheaper in other countries like Brazil, Russia, Thailand, and India. Price: $30K to $50K.

 

Look at me Now !!!! I'm taller than You ......LOL

 

Yeah...money is the key to fixing all problems. If you're insecure about or don't like something about yourself, just go see a specialist. They'll fix you right up....

 

Nobody has been talking about skin color but may be this is where you wanted to take this topic from the start and please don't use second person when describing the situation cause this is not about me. I like the man I see when I look myself in the mirror.

 

We're talking about being secure in who you are as a person. You're the one focusing strictly on height.

 

The picture of Sammy Sosa with bleached skin is not about skin color? Yes it is I'm not the one focusing strictly on height, It was not me who started the height discussion.

Have a wonderful day.

 

A friend showed me on his FB page about where he gets his fight gear. Seeing that just lit a fire under me. Since I plan on taking other Martial Arts like Muay Thai. I saw all the gloves & I was like I have to get those. As you see I posted them on https://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/threads/the-nerdz-lounge.16114/page-792#post-1191242

Once i get them & start training in Muay Thai, I'll probably show a pic or 2 (maybe 3)

 

Dating:

I may not be there, but I'm closer than I was yesterday.

Dang I feel good today

Ladies look out CAKicker is on

 

Has anyone turn their a/c on yet, or is it still stuck on heater?