Middle aged man's opinion: that's cause they spend more time trying to impress their friends instead of actually learning how to communicate with women. So, they end up with average chicks because they're easier to talk to and wow (in their minds anyway). I've never seen where big muscles and six packs really got girls unless money was involved. But, I haven't been on a date with anyone outside of my gf for 12 years. So, maybe shit's changed. This guy illustrates what I've always said; be confident and know how to talk to girls and cats will do fine. Nothing else matters. This guy isn't rich either. Lower middle class and this is who he bagged:
Sounds like a lot of fun. And Shaq is a huge man, so even if he was equipped like a horse, it would look small.
I think the pressure is there. I’ve been a bodybuilder since my teenage years, so, I don’t notice really. But, friends I’ve had in the past, would ask for advice because women in general (black, white, and everything in between), were expecting abs, muscles, and so on. I think it might especially rings true for brothas under 6 foot. Being able to communicate with women, being charming, and successful helps across the board. But if you look like a shlub, she can’t know anything about your personality if she is turned off by your looks. So, I guess, short, out of shape, uggos probably have it the worst.
I don't think being muscular (or tall) is the most prominent stereotype most black guys have to deal with lol
