We discussed this in the random media commentary thread last week: https://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/threads/random-media-commentary.26375/page-52#post-1113759
People forget how young college students are and part of me knows that what she’s doing is harmless. Howeveerrrr that doesn’t look like a switch that only comes on before the game starts hahaa. She’s so into it
Holy Shit! Inside Edition ran this segment yesterday: I thought this was something only CFB/sports fans on social media & forums would joke about. I didn't think it'd blow-up like this.
She started out kissing some of them on the MOUTH, then she switched up to the cheek because she was getting criticism.lol
Watching both of these pieces, I can see now it's not sexual. She's like a mother-figure to them and like they said, some of them come from homes where expressiveness is missing, some don't have loved one's, some of them are missing their families and she's right there at the right time... Not every hug and kiss is sexual... Football, the whole culture is hugs, kisses, high-fives, picking people up, crying, smacking on the ass... And Yes, it would be different if it was a man because men generally don't kiss and carry on like that with their daughters and sons, but mothers do behave that way with their daughters and sons.
It's still weird. No football coach's wife that I know of does the same thing. It's weird like when Tom Brady told his little boy to come over so he could kiss him on the mouth. It's like when you see some parents and say they're 'in love' with their kids because they're too affectionate.
Everyone expresses love differently. It's important that both people are in a mutual understanding of the relationship, friendship and affection that is shared between them. I did find it a bit unusual seeing it at first but I think I didn't grasp the full context of her expressions until I saw more. Yes, it is more affection than people typically give to non-family members but as she said, she treats them as family. I get it.
I just think we've been conditioned that everything is sexual now, when it isn't. Look at the "rape culture" and Me-too movement for even innocent acts or looks - it's construed as sexual. Isn't Black culture known for hugging? Lots of it? Big, warm hugs? In Italian and Greek culture, there's lots of kissing and more kissing. Growing up, we females held hands when we walked down the street. Now In England, people nod or hat tip when they greet each other... In Maori and Eskimos cultures, they rub noses as a greeting. Hispanics kiss and hug a lot! In American culture, there's a mix - lots of hugging and kissing or handshakes, I mean, look at the extended/drawn out handshakes a lot of black guys do with each other - you guys often fist bump, hand slap, (touching) even with complete strangers. You shake and powerfully hug male aquaintences - is that sexual? Are you gay? No. BTW, there was nothing wrong with Tom Brady kissing his little boy on the lips , it was not open mouth and he loves his little child soooo much, it's natural to just want to kiss their whooole face! Like, Arrgh, muah! <3 Question: Were you shown a lot of affection growing up? Because that could affect your response to her.
I don't any dads who kiss their 10 year old SONS on the mouth. And I don't remember any coach's wife who inserted herself into a football team's culture and felt the need to hug and kiss EVERY player before a game. Most coaches have wives, and none of them do this.
It wouldn't surprise me if a few of those players got invited up to the big house every so often so the wife can offer up more motivational kisses.
But that's not what happened, she didn't kiss every player, there were players walking right by her, but there were many players going up to her and players who stopped. Well 10 might be a bit old, but there's a mouth and there's lips. Kissing someone on the mouth is very different than kissing them on the lips. Anyway it wasn't sexual, it was awkward but not sexual. Besides, someone said he was just stealing the youth from his son so he could play football so well. (But not today Satan, not today. Sack that ass)
Yep. And imagine what would happen if the husband of a female coach was kissing female players on the mouth. Or the cheek. Or anywhere, really. The outrage would be heard around the world. This is just plain weird. Like, don't be hugging and kissing on athletes, period. Full stop.
This is some cuckold, neo-plantation shit in plain sight. You know good and well a few players have slipped her the D. That old white gal got herself a rotating smorgasbord of young bucks.
