Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

OH geeze the height thing! This guy is a mess! He's crazy, and then he wonders why no women want him. It's cause he's creepy and obnoxious. There are plenty of short, ugly, lame-ass, whatever else, men out there with women. This idea that they are entitled and if women turn them down they are going to act like fools and do this shit....or how about those that go in and start blowing people away because they didn't get the chick they wanted. Oh please! Most people don't get their fantasy person...so what. Get real, move on. I'm so sick of whiny people making excuses for their lame selfs. Maybe he should focus on improving himself and he would have a better chance.

 

The entitlement is real.

 

I think you're spot-on, and your response put a grin on my face.

 

Honestly, I feel bad for him. Some people handle rejection better than others. You can only beat a dog so much before he learns to distrust humans.

I don't think he feels entitled. I think he's just lonely and dejected. He's probably been bullied all of his life by guys and he may not have the kind of out going personality that would make up for his dimunative stature. So, women look past him or are unnecessary cruel to him. If he were normal size, he'd just be a regular working guy who'd struggle a bit in the dating world, then eventually meet someone and that would be it. They'd go on and live a regular life.

It's not about entitlement for guys like him. It's about being emotionally beat down and lonely. Honestly, the internet has made things aweful for a large swath of men who would've normaly found someone.

Let's turn the tables. I'll bet if he were a woman the reactions would be totally different. He'd be told he was beautiful and given all kinds of support. Maybe, even some Twitter shout outs from male celebrities saying how attractive she really is.

I'm just not seeing why this guy, who obviously has issues, deserves all of this ridicule and condemnation. Is there more to the story that I haven't read?

 

Because he's a man and women are never held accountable for being awful to men. They act as if it's retroactive pay for the way some men have treated women in the pass. Just illustrates abusive behavior isn't resigned to men its just more pronounced because we're stronger.

 

I don't think women ever really understand how hard it is for some guys to get dates.

99% of women can get sex and male attention whenever they want it. It's just a question of how low they want to compromise their standards.

Most men don't have that option no matter how low they're willing to go. That forces a very different mindset when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.

I'm all this yo say, that's not how most men think. He may hit on 9's or 10's, but he'd settle for half that or lower out of shear loneliness or horniness or both. He'd deal with a few bouts of "coyote arm" lonnng before he gets to the point he is in the video clip. Women don't understand how much harder getting sex is for the average man compared to the average woman. That alone changes everything in the world.

 

But you have no right to sex from other people.

 

No one said you do but no one ever says no woman is entitled to commitment or romantic love yet nearly all expect it. Nearly all think their personality and statute entitles them to a man that lives up to their standards. There are leagues of people who encourage that entitlement. "Know your worth" "Never settle for less than you deserve" "You deserve only the best"
I can't recall a single time when a man has ever been afforded that kind of support its usually "no one owes you anything" "suck it up"
Maybe we should exercise a little compassion.

 

Never met a woman who felt entitled to love. Most of us feel we do not deserve it.

If you are dealing with men, why deal with men under your standard?

This is true and some of them should perhaps sit down with a person who is unreasonable in their standard that perhaps lower the baseline and not be too stern with people are actually quite smart.

And in nine of ten times the person with the entitlement is a man and we have blokes sitting in mama's basement wanting nothing but a supermodel.

Yes, to the ones deserving.

 

It is not like men treat women they find unattractive good, instead they are preyed upon.

 

This is really all that needs to be said!

 

I understand what you're saying, but there is a reason the "incel" thing and the "alt right" thing overlap almost perfectly. One feels like theyre entitled to sex, one feels like theyre entitled to our whole country! Entitlement, fear, jealousy, are so integral to both of these movements if u can call them that.

 

I think the goal is to know your worth regardless of gender. Also, knowing what you want is very important. If you’re a successful person that doesn’t want a marriage or to have children, then there isn’t much a person can offer you. Assuming you have a solid social circle and or happen to be comfortable with large amounts of solitude, sex is about the only thing anyone can offer. It’s funny how it works that way.

This guy is a damn mess. And considering the racist stuff he has said lately, I can see why no one wants him. I will say that the gold digging types may take a temporary interest due to his current 15 minutes of fame, but that will be fleeting.

 

What racist stuff?

 

Well women lie to you apparently.

 

Google it. He was talking about using the n word if he is pissed off enough. He mentioned this after explaining that he had a black friend.

 

Different generations...

 

Tell me once more why I should have sympathy for this man that should hit the gym, buy new clothes and take a course in etiquette and perhaps see a therapist too before he makes a move on a woman again?

 

You can also tell hes racist by the way he talks about the "indian lady" and "pakistani guy" in his interview