I'm with DK and mrmike, people with options usually don't go complaining about where others lay around. And YES! That includes bw.
Not sure about that, I have heard BW who prefer white men complain about BM dating WM. They try to police BM because they can.
Yea I don't get that, yet it gets a pass from other BW and problack Black men. It's strange. Most BW I meet all just want to be with BM. They will have plenty of suitors of other races, yet reserve themselves for us and act like we owe them cuz they're so loyal. I know one who is ready to marry me cuz she can't find a serious BM, and she has guys of other races getting at her. When I ask why she doesn't try it. She like I want a Black Man nothing else. Guess the heart wants what it wants lol. Ain't got Shit to do with me tho.
In that case that has nothing to do with the heart. That's a stand she's taken that she's going to hold fast to. It's too bad too because if you were to ask most people who are in happy relationships if they really thought this would be the person they would end up with, they would probably say no. Not anything negative really just that it could be something like their job, where they live, that they had kids, hair color, height, education, whatever. Sometimes the best things for us (or who we may be meant to be with) don't come in the exact packages we expect.
Yes, BW cross the line when they paint BM as monsters just because they date and have sex with WW. They should rather ask the question how come so many BM love us so much.
This is spot on! WM are threatened by black men (and latino men to some extent) in a way that they are not by asian men. I mean come on, WM watch the NBA and the NFL, there is no way they honestly think that BM are inferior to them. This fear I believe starts pretty young too. I saw when my daughter was in high school, most of the "popular" boys and the athletes tended to be black, creating a breeding ground for these disaffected white boys. I think we saw that on a massive scale with the trump vote. A huge mass of disaffected angry white men that came out to vote against the rise of PoC, because they feel like in a diverse society they will become irrelevant. So no, black men are not "garbage", they are seen as a legitimate threat to the power structures that currently exist
I agree and We must remember that Obama was President 8 years and still And still has a lot of support! http://www.politico.com/story/2017/02/all-time-best-president-united-states-rankings-235149
And I think that more and more black men have a high position i US like Charles Ogletree Professor Harvard Law School, Ted Wells one of the best lawyer in US, dr Ben Carson Neurosurgeon, Kenneth Frazier CEO Merck and many many others.
It's that Matriarchal bullshit I'm always pointing out. You don't see other races of women policing their men because they are too busy getting policed.
Its hard to know for sure, but in general I do think that women tend to adopt the political beliefs of their significant other. Most white women are with white men, so they simply followed their husbands lead i think? Not sure tbh though
