what do white women love about black men?

I get where you're coming from. There's definitely much to be said on this topic. I know it happens in black communities everywhere, but I think we see so much of it in the densely populated inner cities. I saw plenty of it, and intentionally steered clear of it. Just another part of my conscious efforts to avoid getting caught up in the negative cycles that catch so many of us.

Of course I'm not painting with a broad brush, but I can generally spot this woman (or man) mile away. If I go back to childhood days... You could see it forming from then. Decades later I'm not at all suprised at the way many of them turned out. It's really sad, and again... decades later I'm seeing how that vicious cycle continue on full strength. This is part of what I mean when I say... "We (collectively) have to do better".

On another note where it this happened, but things turned for the better:

I recently connected with an old classmate from middle school on FB. I remember her in those days. She was always very bright. One who didn't have to study and would still ace an exam. Apparently, she did well in high school (we didn't go to the same high school), and won a full ride scholarship for college. By her own admission, she had the wrong priorities, got back into her middle school ways, lost the scholarship and flunked out of college. She later went back to school, and is now about to complete her graduate education which is awesome. We were talking about student loans and she was saying how she'd have a lot less student loan debt had she not thrown away that undergrad full ride. She knows it's water under the bridge, but she says she often use her own situation as an example to young people when talking about not making poor choices. She did say that she felt fortunate to not have gotten caught up the whole having babies too early and such thing.

 

Stockholm Syndrome, brother. The programming is deep.

 

Interesting - I noticed several similarities in things he called out and some of the people who have been on here.

 

Like?

 

GL came to mind first off

And those times when some have gone on about how black men are going with fat ugly white women

 

i dated both but just find myself more attracted to black men. I am just so much more attracted to them and I have to say every blackman I dated was so much more into me then then the whited guys I had dated.

 

Lol..l didn't even realize it was him. Did a college research essay on him on his infamous speech at Kean College.
#Throwbackmemory

 

Strength
Passion
Resilience
Analytical
Book smart
Street Smart
Intelligent
Intellectuals
Mysterious
Empathetic
Hard-working
Innovative
Protectors
Gorgeous smiles
Sense of humor
Questioners
Resisters
Fighters
Masculine
Men's men
Loving
Stern
Romantics
Chivalrous
Funny
Sarcastic
Fun
Active
Sharp
Wonderful fathers who can
guide their sons on intinct
Wisdom
Stress adapters
Incredible sexiness.

Tbc...!

 

Great answer.

 

Oh please post it, I would love to see! Khalid was certainly misguided and let bigotry and bitterness ruin a genuine attempt to address the system we live in.

 

Their sexy silky smooth beautifully coloured skin, luscious lips and buns of steel, all equate to mad sex appeal. Not all are even blessed with size, but there's something overbearing no matter the size when they creep up between the thighs.

 

I think @brethard finally got some competition!

 

^

 

Let's battle then @brethard

 

Aussie chic think she's Iggy Azelea

 

I love the contrast between my peach & cream complexion and a darker skin shades, and most black men face the world unafraid and that is intoxicating.

 

I get in trouble for stroking him all over lol he can't understand my love for that beautifully soft silky skin!!

 

Exactly.

 

White women love black men with a nice smile, the non-militant type, with charisma that can rap around their waist. My girl tells me she like em strong like coffee with the coolest vibe.

 

Your girl is black though right?