Femininity - Define and Describe

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by K, Jan 5, 2016.

  1. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Sparked from the other thread:

    Describe and define what "femininity" means to you.
     
  2. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    She is a team player. She doesnt take from the table but bring to the table. Women confuse being a real women with arguing with her man with being strong....arguing all the time just cause just means you are a woman who just argues.
     
  3. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    feminine to me is the opposite of being masculine...some of the things that feminine women do is take pride in their appearance...polishing their nails, getting a pedicure, styling their hair, taking care of their skin, shaving their legs and under arms, grooming the bikini line, taking the time to choose lingerie, taking pride in their presentation, when she holds her mans hand she returns his grip, she takes notice of her stride when she walks and glides instead of stomps...she may submit sexually to her partner...I could go on and on...

    she can be all of these things...some of these things but most certainly intelligent and successful at the same time
     
    Last edited: Jan 6, 2016
  4. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    This is how I'd define being feminine as well.

    Great post. :smt023
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Yall know what im going to do right?

    Make a thread .......lol. Do women really want a man?

    Or do yall know what it means to be a man?
     
  6. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    of course we know that you will go off on yet another tangent...more than likely the intelligent, successful feminine woman gravitate towards a different man than the traditional women do...so we will have different answers:p
     
  7. K

    K Well-Known Member

    I think femininity has much more to do with who she is and how she carries herself, rather than just the outward appearance. I know some very feminine women who aren't all about the hair, makeup, nails, etc. It's more about their energy.
     
  8. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    I mentioned presents herself... Same thing !
     
  9. K

    K Well-Known Member

    Ok. I was simply giving my opinion of what it is. It really wasn't in connection with what anyone else posted.

    But now that you stated that....I actually don't think it is the same thing. She could present herself muddy in sweats and her hair a mess, that doesn't mean she's less feminine.
     
  10. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    Iff she is mud wrestling or doing a mud run..Trust me ...some men might see that as very sexy... He might even want to help her shower
     
  11. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Some men might find that sexy, but it doesn't make her feminine.
     
  12. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Lol
    Lol
     
  13. bilbo

    bilbo Active Member

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  14. bilbo

    bilbo Active Member

    A woman who is feminine is polite, well-spoken, and nurturing. She uses lotions and moisturizers to get her skin right. She has go-to morning and evening perfumes and owns professional and casual attire that accentuates her body.

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  15. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    THIS we can agree on. :smt023
     
  16. Loki

    Loki Well-Known Member

    I think Lord Byron defined it very well...

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  17. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    1 large popcorn please....
     
  18. Shulz021

    Shulz021 Well-Known Member

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  19. Unique4ever

    Unique4ever Well-Known Member

    Please tell me this dude is trying to be funny or something?!
     
  20. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    If that's what speaks feminine to him, how can we be annoyed? Every person will have their own definition. I don't agree with every one of his points, but most resonate with me.
     

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