Should You Ever Take Womens Advice On How To Get Women ?

What I am saying is you have the option to opt out if shit gets too heavy. Sad reality but true. Women like Cherokee are in the fire with us via her kids. No escaping it. Just like you decided that you enjoy bm today you can easily decide tomorrow its not for you and never think about it again. Am I wrong?

 

Maybe for some but not for me, personally. But I get your point.

 

I guess I don't understand all of your points, TDK.

Yes, I am tightly entwined into the realities, struggles, prejudice of an interracial family. I married a black man and I could see how some people looked at us. Black girls who hated me in highschool and wouldn't be my friend because I dated a black guy. Shook things up at home and my relationship with my parents became quite distant, rocky relationship because they didn't understand my choices, going from denial, to borderline racist, later feeling disowned for a while until they grew up and realized that I had grown up and now had a biracial had a child.

I do understand the struggle I endured

What I don't understand is how I could "opt out" as you say; I am forever tied to my life and my children.

If what you mean is making changes in my dating preferences, I guess you're right but anybody can do that. My children are always going to be biracial so I don't think that I can opt out of my life...

 

That's the point he was making. You can't opt out because having biracial children makes you fully vested. I don't have biracial children, so I could decide to walk away from anything to do with BM. It was a slight to those of us who haven't dated BM all our lives.

 

Gotcha! Thank you for clarifying, Ches. I was like huh!?

 

Would you please not do that because it wasn't a slight
It was an observation about her and women like her

 

I didn't see it as a slight to anyone, I just wanted to make sure I understood what "opting out" meant.

I think it would be nice if we stop making assumptions about what other people are saying so I tried to seek clarification when I need it

 

With a few exceptions, you only respect the women here who have biracial children and some with no children. Not a slight now, just my observation.

 

You two truly crack me up. Maybe you secretly/subconsciously like one another....

 

Umm there's some truth to that actually. It's not entirely true because there are some women who I desperately miss posting like Espy or Tarshi who didn't always date bm but never gave me the vibe that.... you know what the more I think about it I have to say it's not that I only respect people with biracial kids I just respect them more. Kind of like ir couples who did this shit back in the 70s and before when this shit could mean death. I have a little more respect for those who take on bigger risks.

 

Espy and Tarshi are the exceptions I was referring to.

 

Oh please. :smt021

 

Joanie loves Chachi :smt052 :smt060 :smt055

 

I've gotten good advice from a woman

 

^^^ How can you seriously dismiss the fact that we ARE women??! No, we don't pick up women but is running game on a woman the only thing men ever want advice on? It just boggles my mind that any man can think he can't get advice on women from another woman. Again, if I want advice about men, I'm going to get truer advice from a man I trust than my girlfriends, no matter how well-meaning they are.

 

Just out of curiosity, where do you live? Women where I live approach men pretty frequently. Hell, a few days ago one of my coworkers asked me out, and it wasn't the first time that it has happened. Sometimes it's more subtle, sometimes it's more direct but it happens. And I'm not anything special, either. I'm average height (5'9"), average build (beer gut, no six pack), and I drive a Camry...definitely not a baller by any means. On the other hand I dress relatively well, pay attention to my hygiene, smile a lot and even though I'm pretty quiet on the whole I crack a bunch of jokes when I am talking to people. Saying that all women don't approach men is a pretty bold statement.

Not trying to be funny or anything and I'm not trying to offend you or start any internet beef but are you this angry in person when you're talking to women? If so, it may come across in your interactions with them even if it's subconscious. People can pick up on anger and no matter how good you look or how much money you have, no one wants to deal with someone who is constantly at war with half the world's population.

 

Personally, nine times out of ten I want advice on Christmas/birthday gifts lol. Games are why I bought a Playstation 4.

 

Lol. You're a sweetie, Since.

 

Yeah I have gotten good advice.

1. If you ask good opened questions then you are on the right foot

2. Don't be afraid to go for broke in the convoy

3. Direct approach in a lot of situations are cool. If you do it right.

You make sure you are friends with a down woman to know your game is tight.

Game has a few meanings in the hood.

If a person says "rick got game" then it means he knows how to deal with a woman properly. He's not doing dumb shit.

another meeting is if they say "he's full of game (bs) you playing games or something like that" then that means he's lying or not being truthful one way or another.

 

Cosign women approaching men in Atlanta all the time. #fact