stats on women abusing men...the big secret

I didn't see anything close to a "go fuck yourself" in your correspondence with me so you're golden lol

I can't imagine you coming across as anything but respectful and intellectually sound :freehug:

 

This entire thread is unreal

 

What's unreal is how a few smart individuals could be so ignorant....

I have a great idea for a case study for the women can't do any damage to you physically or mentally crew. You guys will need to transform yourselves into characters and have full cooperation friends and family as actors as well.

andre, Beasty, sampson, raider, you will imagine yourselves as men who are under one of these scenarios in a abusive relationship

Your fully invested in your relationship and want it to thrive

You do not want your children experiencing a divorce

You are cannot afford the child support and/or ailomony payments if you divorce

Your reputation will be tarnished by leaving this woman

You have major business assets tied up in this woman's name and leaving will break the bank

She has dirt on you which can land you in the slammer


Again you guys are actors and have to truly believe who you are and the situation you are in.


Now here comes the fun part. Beasty you don't seem like a guy who lives with a woman so you will have to employ many women or friends as actors, andre/sampson get your s/o, and raider get your daughter, should be a size advantage between you two.


For one whole month have them punch, kick, slap, spit, bite, scratch, choke, push, pull you hard and as many times they can randomly during the day at any given place including in public. Whenever you do something unapproving to them or they dont get their way, they are to flip out in a violent hyper aggressive physical manner. If you go to subdue them or walk away, tell them fight even harder.

Yes it's ok for them to even attack you while your in a deep sleep, it's even better when it's unsuspecting. For addeded affect, the woman should verbally disrespect you by calling you all types of names like a worthless n***** when attacking you.

As in most cases of abuse, it escalates over time so have your violent actors in the later stages of the study to use household objects as weapons to attack you with.


Please let us know at the end of this study if it truly never hurt, bothered you or you still find male abuse a laughing matter.

 

It happens... more often than you would think. It happened to me, and it can certainly happen to you.

 

Alot go unreported. Did u read the srticle? Its the same.

 

Rep added. Well said!

 

This is a nightmare scenario.

You don't stay in a failed relationship because you want something obviously broken to succeed.
You don't stay married because you don't want your children to experience a divorce.
A bad marriage can have worse consequences on a child than seeing both parents separate.

If you are employed you can afford some level of alimony, even if you have to severely cut your personal expenses.

What reputation in today's world is tarnished by getting divorced???

If you and your wife have joint business assets, when you divorce they split. I don't understand how that would break you financially unless you're living way above your means.

About her having dirt on you that could put you in the slammer, get rid of the dirt. I don't know what else to say on that.

None of these are good reasons to stay in a marriage where you're getting your ass kicked daily.

Your physical and mental health are much more important than any reason listed above not to divorce.

Marriage is a contractual and in many cases, business relationship. As is the case when any joint venture goes out of business, there's some financial pain involved.
But you survive it.

Finally, any of the reasons listed above will NOT earn you sympathy from a judge or jury if you decide to end your spouse's abuse...permanently.

I truly feel for any man who's getting beat on by his woman, but I just can't believe it's a huge problem for the majority of men or anywhere near the same level of violence that many women experience.

I used to live near a safe house for battered women in VA. Every once in a while in the middle of the night you would see a female with her kid(s) and a suitcase being taken into the house next door.
One night I was woken up by a loud crashing sound and the local police arrived minutes later.

One of these poor women had her ex find her location and nearly ripped off the back door of that house to get at her.

One of the leading causes of death for pregnant women is homicide, usually committed by the fathers of their unborn children.

For anyone to argue men suffer in great numbers from domestic violence is an urban myth and cheapens the brutal reality many woman live through everyday.

 

I love myself too much to participate in this study, and I am a firm believer that only a person who loves himself can truly value another human being.

Allowing someone to treat me like that wouldn't correspond to my character at all.

I don't know why some people allow others to abuse them, but if a man finds himself in this type of situation, I would suggest that he evaluates himself. He is not at fault for what's being done to him, but that's beside the point.

What's important is that fact that the solution to the problem is within himself along with the reason this was allowed to happen in the first place. By learning, he can move forward without finding himself in a similar situation in the future.

I have faith in the value of learning, it's my only natural religion.

I can't feel sorry for this person because there is something for him to learn from this situation. Learning is how we elevate our level of awareness. Whatever it takes for him to learn will be worth it to him in the long run.

 

Would you say this to a woman?

 

Are men and women the same?

 

Sorry brah, but this is a serious issue, and you are just part of the problem.

Truth.

 

So basically your saying battered men have no options when they are being constantly assaulted, because that would look, well, "silly".

Interesting...
Another contributing to the problem.

 

Whenever my personal opinion starts ruining lives.

 

Clever

Of course you are welcome to your opinion. However, your opinion reinforces the idea, in this case, that men who would "complain" of abuse, are less masculine than other males and therefore deserve ridicule. How rational is that theory. Seriously?

 

Well damn

 

The same? No
Equal? Yes
So if we are to share equally in this society then we should be treated equally.
Just because you're stronger doesn't make you better nor should you belittle others for not being as strong. As I said earlier anyone and I mean anyone can get got. Being weak in a moment or over a series of moments doesn't make you weak. Looking down on the weak makes you weak because it's obvious how incredibly insecure you are.

 

Im truly glad men are Speaking up and not spwe the noncense that the man should just walk away, im stronger, its weak etc.
Then You dont understand the nature of being abused, wether You are a man, or a woman. it takes extremely little research n line to find out how it works and why a physically stronger person can still be a victim of domestic abuse.

Having someone that slapped you on occation is not the same as being systemically abused which is what we are talking about here.

Make an effort to read about it, nothing controversial about it. I find it terribly sad that some of You have no compassion for aa domesticerade abuse victim just because he is a man. It happens a hell of a lot more than You think, as it does with sonen being abused as well. There is so much stigma to this that victims stay quiet, on top of the mental abuse reasons they stay quiet (look it up). Every singel physically abused victim is also mentally and emotionally abused as well

 

Lol.

I would laugh at my friends and talk shit when they do something silly or for no reason at all. I don't take it personal when they clown me. We talk shit all the time, because it's no big deal. I don't treat women the same way for obvious reasons.

I'm not going to justify my reason for laughing and talking shit, I did it because I felt like it. Feel free to think of it as you may. Either way I'm not changing what I do or say.

 

My question was "are we the same," now that you have answered that you have your answer from me.

 

I have no idea what they deserve, it's not that serious to me.