...lol http://www.unilad.co.uk/relationships/women-confess-what-they-find-attractive-in-a-guy-with-some-surprises/
lmao these are freak fringe women. If they account for 3 percent of the population I'd be surprised. Keep simple, be in shape, have a good income, have comfortable surroundings and pay for 90% of everything. At least half the women out there will want you.
I have an odd fringe one also: i want to be in a comitted relationship with someone, but not live together. Keep your place and We stay over at one another when We want to. This works for people like me that is passed the "making family" years. We even have a word for it in swedish for the passed 20 - 30 years or so "särbo" (loosly translated to living-apart). Its usually men and women with an empty nest and both set-up separate households. Its very common in sweden - regardless of what You think, it actually works there. There are a lot of men and women who dont want to date, or find the next best thing, but have quality time with someone that they cherish and connect with - and love, just no need to live together. I have many friends over there in such relationship. I know the concept is wildly weird for most americans but that is what i want. My work have me travel a lot and with the new job, less national but more international travel (going to spain in february, yeyy!) and i need my cave time. Lol. I love sex, with the same person, but for the most part want to wake up ön my own. I know, i know. Im weird. Im not handling on this concept in the US, would probably have to move back to sweden where its a totaltly accepted arrangement. Pardon the weird spelling, i am having my swedish autocorrect on and too lazy to switch
No you're not weird. That sounds so ideal to me. I need SPACE TO BREATHE. No woman I've ever dated got that. I just want to feel free and no feel like my entire existence is about a relationship.
It's awesome to hear that a woman needs cave time. That's common ground that I can easily appreciate.
LOL. That article makes women sound certifiable crazy.:smt091 NOT normal females, at all. At least I know my type.:smt055 I pray the rest of you do as well.:smt102
Nothing wrong with your choice at all, FG. I'm not crazy about a living together arrangement, either. Everyone needs to have their own space.
Not a problem. Your way allows a man to be more open about his feelings. It doesn't seem like a good idea to let a woman know how much you like her when she's suffocating you.
Nothing wrong with what she wants. Not everyone needs a traditional relationship. Our society is too stuck on one size fits all model when it comes to how people love.