Lol. I had to learn but u dont have to be a phd to get the signs. Ill give u an example. This one woman i dated was fine as hell. She will tell me about the arguments of her and her ex Then her and her grown son would get inti argumenrs and he was very disrespectful. After a year of listening to her convo and the interaction of her son...she was dissmissed.
Heck yeah . She was a cool chick but i seen it coming if i got deep with her. U dont need a complete picture.just enough to know what it may look like
Be you. Don't be Tom Cruise'' character Dr. Bill Harford from Eyes Wide Shut. My mother often told me, in her simple bible way, that the ways of woman are not known. There are too many things to figure out when it comes to a woman. You can learn to accept her as she is or dig deeper at your peril. Billy Joel said it best in the songs Always A Woman To Me, Uptown Girl, Big Shot and Christie Lee.
Lol. I had to learn thru experience and thats not a good way of learning. Someone posted that about experience being your teacher. Bros need to talk to get around that crap
Can you really learn from someone else's experience though? Imo sharing your struggles doesn't really do anything to help anyone...just lets the venter get it off their chest.
Some people are too thick headed to realize what they're in; sometimes it takes a second perspective to shine a light on what should be an obviously bad situation.
That makes sense. If my friend is, for some reason, blind to the reality of her abusive relationship, I'll most definitely speak up. I thought he was talking about pow-wowing with his friends about their general relationship woes. That, to me, serves zero purpose. Intervening when a friend is in need, is most definitely understandable though.
U rite . Having a pity party serves no purpose or at least a long one. Afterwards, u need to learn from it. What i was saying that people need to share their experiences and tell what they learned. When u really see the story for what it is....the woman attract too much drama. I dont want to be around that. She has a disrespectful son and crazy arguments with her ex (husband at the time). I saw whats coming cause i learned from it and also listened to other men. IF people stop being sexblind then they would avoid alot