Online Dating????

I dont fault him overly in asking her for her views but be cool about it. I get he wanted to understand but dont come to people sideways...especially outthe gate

 

Out the gate, yes. He did not continue his dialogue with her in a hateful or disrespectful tone, she did however.

 

Ok my bad....

 

Yeah but he set the tone for that.

Start wrong it can or it will end wrong.

To me it got argumentative.


Like i stated, he shouldve left her alone.

 

That's true, some people have a knee-jerk reaction and meaningful dialogue is a lost cause. I don't feel like he was argumentative though; I feel like he was just trying to understand why she thinks the way she does.

I probably would've never said anything because I usually avoid confrontation at all costs, most especially if they give me the impression they are ignorant from the beginning.

 

That wad point from the beginning. When does a black person ever get the chance to actually talk to a racist person. I was curious. Curiosity satisfied now we can move on

 

Why u think it shitty and rude

 

The same you'd think it was shitty if I said no bw

 

Let's go there.

I can already see what your going to do. Your going to pull up stats of how obesity is unhealthy with theatrical fodder when in fact not all "obese" people are unhealthy.... kinda like not all black guys are classless losers...

 

Um no. Steph Curry is black and so is Kevin Garnett do they look a like at all?
How about Morrison Chestnut and Steve Harvey?

 

If this was the truth, you would of asked the members of racist site, the racist forum that you've well been aware of for years.

 

Now u are deflecting.

Now go back and read. I said no problem with dating exclusive as long as u didnt throw groups under the bus.

Go back and read. Also go pull up a post where i said its shitty.

Now answer the question , why is it shitty and rude? show me where i said that.

 

Good love if you think it's shitty why do you need my opinion on it?

 

Because I don't frequent racist site the situation came up on the dating site. I wasn't seeking it out but I think you know that.

 

Like i stated before i would love for women to put thier preference on tgeir forehead in public so i will not waste time trying to get a date with them when i see them at the market.

 

I didnt say it was. U said it was shitty. I said im happy she would so i wouldnt waste time.

U posted the convo and discussed it.

So why u think its shitty?

 

It's shitty to openly exclude people it's poor taste usually attached to some racist bs as illustrated by that woman

 

This isn't the first time you brought this issue up so it wouldn't be far fetched that the idea of asking why hasn't crossed your mind a few times.

I love how after she called you classless loser, you switched your game up and exhuded yourself in a better nature acting above it.

Sounds like a personal problem.

 

You're definitely stirring youngin because she didn't say I was classless she said black guys were. Including you too

 

So i was right. It was about race.

Thats fine in thats how u felt. Just say it. I cant blame u on how u feel. Just dont lie about it.

Feelings are some times different from right, wrong or the facts but they are feelungs and they are real.