your friend/co-worker is banging ur ex...u mad?

http://m.tmz.com/#article/2015/10/08/matt-barnes-punches-derek-fisher-in-the-mouth-witness/

Matt Barnes punched Derek Fisher in the mouth with a closed fist during their melee in L.A. this past weekend -- and only stopped fighting when one of Matt's kids begged them to stop ... a witness tells TMZ Sports.*

We spoke with a family member who was at the home when the incident went down ... and we're told Barnes was heated from the moment he walked in the door and saw his former Lakers teammate in the home.*

We're told Barnes berated Fisher for dating his estranged wife*Gloria Govan*-- saying he felt disrespected because they've been good friends for years. The witness says Barnes made it clear he felt betrayed by Fish.*

Fisher stood up to Barnes and an argument broke out -- the witness tells us Barnes threw a punch that hit Derek square in the mouth.*

We're told Derek fought back and "was holding his own" -- until several people, including Gloria, rushed in to try to break it up.*

But the fighting didn't stop until one of Matt's children came into the backyard and begged the men to stop fighting.

 

Question: who is the ass in this situation?

 

I was all prepared to storm in here and fire shots at Barnes. But, then I saw it was his ex-wife. That changes everything. Whole different set of rules.

There are certain lines friends should just not cross. I wouldn't fight him. But, our friendship would be over. And his wife is dirty for doing that shit. How are you going to bang your ex-husband's boy? If they wear boyfriend and girlfriend then it is what it is. But, married? She made herself look real trashy with that one,

 

Yeah but i really dont think theyre friends but ciworkers...does that change ur position

 

Coworkers changes things quite a bit. Then Barnes is in the wrong. But, considering the type of comradarie that ball players must have to work as a team, it's, at least, a little suspect. What do you think?

 

Im not gonna front....i dont know.

I think i would kick both of their asses.

DF to an extent broke bro code...she showed trifling traits.

 

LOL, is it really worth getting mad over shit like that. Some of these dude need to learn how to smash and pass. I know it's his ex-wife and not just some quick fling, but still. No point going fisticuffs with someone over it.

 

Think these just about sum it all up at least for me.

 

Lol

 

Why would I care

 

It's only an issue when your kids start calling him "dad".

 

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Can't be mad if you dropped the ball. I'm perfectly OK with my sons calling another man dad but I can't ever see that happening. It takes a village to raise a child.

 

There is a particular ex whom i wish would remain a virgin lol but with ma ex wife hell naw brother can smash till his nutsack gets dry IDGAF.

 

U say that.....

 

Interesting perspective. For me I could *never* be ok with the idea of my kids calling someone else Dad. I am and will always be their one and only Dad. I agree that there can be multiple positive influences in a child's life, friends, extended family, coaches, teachers, ect. but for me the word Dad is sacred and belongs to me and me only when it comes to my kids.

Recently one of my closest buddies found out that another very close buddy of his is dating his ex-wife. He was devastated, for one he allowed this other buddy to move in with him and his then wife early on in their marriage when the buddy was down on his luck and needed a place to stay, he lived with them for about 9 months. I feel awful about this as well as I introduced my buddy to his now ex- wife 20 plus years ago.

His ex, and his now former buddy hid the relationship from him, and then when he found out by accident (he was in her neighborhood for work and saw his buddy's car in her driveway) they both acted like he was wrong for being upset. Needless to say he has cut them both off (except talking to his ex about kid related issues), and I wholeheartedly support his decision to do so.

 

Thats a jacked up story.

When a woman cheats....its your fault. Ever notice that

 

That is very sad. Don't blame yourself.

 

That is a tough story, Loki. But I agree with your buddy's decision to cut off all non child-related interaction with them. It's probably best for all involved.

 

Some people just suck.

It's crazy how when the shoe is on the other foot, people can justify why friends betray one another. If the roles were reversed, Im sure they would find all sorts of reasons for the taboo relationship to be wrong.

I personally don't like or justify any friend dating/sleeping with my ex. Be it my ex husband or an ex boyfriend.