Relationship Coach finds love of her life while dating another man

This is why you don't spend your hard earned cash trying to empress a woman. 'Cause, if she sees someone she thinks is more clever than you are, she's out and you're sitting there with a hard dick, empty pockets and a deflated ego. It's just how the game is played.

Make them chicks earn it.

 

She wouldn't have mentioned it if she didn't care about it. Or if it wasn't a turn on. His looks mattered a lot which is why the "cute" guy was referred to as such.

 

This we fully agree on. Tinder is for hooking up period lol

 

She was asked to describe him. Blue collar guys can be cute and professionals can be ugly. She just wasn't feeling him enough to resist the new guy's advances. And FTR, she did resist him at first out of respect for Mr Tinder.

 

That had little to do with respect and more not to look like a bitch. How is blue collar a description of anything beyond your class status. And speaking of class she didn't seem to have much. She invited the other guy out didn't she?

 

Uh no. He asked her for her number and she declined. Before they left the bar, her girlfriend gave him her number at her request. If anyone was disrespectful, it was him for asking for her number even after he knew she was with one of the men at the table.

 

Are you that naive really? Again that was all to not come off as a bitch. What changed between him asking and her friend giving him the number. People are just shallow, but at least men have the decency not to pretend.

 

:smt042

 

Also keep in mind she wrote the article and she still came off as a little bitchy so in reality it was probably worst.

 

Lol. Your convo trumps alot. He shouldve known he was in trouble when the 3rd date is with her friends

 

Once again, why would he ask when she'd told him she'd been seeing one of the guys at the bar (who, by the way, she invited to hang out with her and some other friends. She says they were friends and trying to decide if there was interest enough to go further)? As they were leaving one of her female friends mentioned the new guy again, and Ravid suggested she go talk to him. Now whether she meant for her friend to give him her number or the friend chose to do so isn't clear.

 

If she had anything against blue collar men then she wouldve never gone on three dates.

Yall over analyzing this

 

Exactly.

 

Again are you that naive? Her telling her friend to talk to dude was obviously code and she totally intended for her friend to pass him the number. Otherwise she would have been surprised he got it

 

You guys have been out of the game awhile apparently. People totally date less than their ideal just because they're bored or nothing better is around
Its like saying he wouldn't take her out if he had interest in other women.
I will agree with GL on one thing the minute she invited him to chill with her friends it was over. She had no real interest

 

Lol I'm very much in the game, boo. And I'd date a carpenter over an accountant any day. Why? I like the field. What a guy does is important to me in that if it's a field I'm interested in, we can talk about his job without me falling asleep. I've dated both blue collar and professional because I found them interesting not because I'm bored. I'd rather stay home and amuse myself than go on a date because I'm bored.

 

But that's you in your 50s. A lot of these younger women hate being bored. They'd rather be taken out and entertained by a guy they're not that into rather than just stay home and do nothing

 

Out the game too long...lol.

Names and faces may change but the essence of the game stay the same. Lol

 

So then you should know there's Mr Right and Mr Right now
The dude they make wait because they like them too much
The dude who they keep around to inflate their ego
Etc

 

My age has less to do with it than the reason I date.