Random Conversation 2.0

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I definitely understand and do not have a problem with pleasing yourself I just have a problem if you do it when I'm around. If you can have sex whether it be for two hours or two minutes wouldn't you rather want pussy ...? Wouldn't you want her to perform oral sex on you or give you a hand job wouldn't that feel better? Pardon me being blunt.

 

How much would that matter if dude just wanted to sleep? :smt005

 

Yes and no. Truthfully I like it much better when it's mutual. Her satisfaction makes me happy but its dope when we both get something out of it. And to be honest if my girl is asleep when I'm horny I think its rude to wake her up just so I can get off.

 

Not just rude but ridiculous. All of this stuff in the media about women being objectified and not been seen as "equal" then we have this discussion and it turns out to be offensive when a man doesn't see his woman as a subservient piece of meat. :smt042

 

I know right? Talk about mixed signals. Is it even possible for her to give true consent coming out of sleep.
What I've come to realize is that women just want to be in total control and when they are in total control they're miserable.

 

Can somebody get the huntress in here PLEASE!

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Professor Goodlove agrees with the fellas soo..........



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Yall are absolutely crazy lol. When I'm awoken by my guy kissing on my back and I go down on him...that's not really consent because Im coming out of sleep? Because I'm willing to please my man morning, noon or night...I'm being objectified and seen as unequal? Good God Either you're not understanding what we're actually saying or you're choosing to be difficult lol. I can't imagine you'd find (m)any woman, truly ok with waking to find her partner watching porn, masturbating in bed next to her. Yall act like its a burden on your partner, to wake her for some mid-night intimacy. Quite the contrary. It's incredibly sexy to be awoken by soft kisses on the neck, to feel his hands tracing your spine, having him whisper in your ear exactly what he wants :smt048 Such a turn-on :smt079 You think my guy minds when I kiss on his arms & chest in the middle of the night and ask if I can suck his dick? He'd take me over self-satisfaction every day of the week and I feel the same way. Not judging you guys for preferring your own hand sometimes, I just don't think you'll find many women who truly understand your views. We're the selfish sex though, so fuck your views

 

Have you been paying attention to the gender relationships being set by feminist these are actually valid questions in world where saying you're beautiful God Bless is now seen as street harassment. And its great that YOU think that way but YOU don't speak for EVERYONE do you? And even if you did again you're making personal gratification all about you. I was reading an article today about educated women having a hard time finding men and they all think its because men are intimidated and I'm seeing more and more its just A LOT of self centered this entire thing is about my feelings kind of thing. Not saying that's necessarily the case with you guys in particular but these kinds of conversations make me think about it. This particular back and forth comes down to if I please myself without your consent then your feelings are hurt. Think about how insane that sounds. That's like saying if I'm hungry and I don't allow you to cook for me and then feed me or we don't eat together that signifies something about the relationship. It just sounds really codependent to me.

 

A relationship, a true partnership, is a two way street. It's not just about your feelings OR my feelings. It's about respecting your partner enough to make compromises. If I'm not digging you masturbating in bed next to me, that's a conversation that needs to be had and should be respected. There's a middle ground for nearly every issue, it's up to the two in the relationship to decide if they want to find it or continue worrying solely about their own feelings. I'm usually really easy going but you doing something that you know will hurt me, just to satisfy yourself, would likely be the end of our relationship. You can't build on that. Sincere love (imo) involves keeping my partners feelings front and center. Doing something that I know would bother him (regardless of how trivial I might believe it to be), isn't cool. Period.

 

I can't deal with any of that bro. It's either she be my best friend or stay on fuck buddy status.

 

I agree and they're very lucky they're cute because I can see this going somewhere totally different if they weren't.

 

I don't get to say this often....you sir are absolutely on point here! :freehug:

 

First off when did anyone say anything about masturbating while next to you?
Secondly you saying you want complete ownership and dominion over my sexual appetites is ridiculous. Like everyone has said from the beginning this doesn't mean sex with you stops, it doesn't mean that desire for you will decrease because of this. If a man masturbating "hurts" you then that sounds like a problem you need to explore internally and figure out. I can't make that better for you without me giving up what I want to suit you and that's just a recipe for long term resentment.