Random Conversation 2.0

I notice that women are just more codependent. They need to feel connected all the time or it doesn't seem worth it to them. That's why the concept of sex without them seems so unbelievable. It's suppose to be an activity between two people not to mention then never had to work for sex like we did, it came/comes so easy

 

A gf who is in in the mood 24/7 is in the honey moon phase or a small minority. I'm only into treating my woman as a sex toy when she's in the mood. Sex ain't that serious for me to be bugging my woman for some when she has cramps, headache, tired or sleepy.

The quickest way for me to become completely turned off is having uninspired sex when you can clearly see a woman forcing herself even if she initiates it.

My gf and I compromise with each other when we aren't in the mood. If I'm in the mood and she's not, I just stroke my dick and she kisses me n my hot spots till completion as I hold her tight. Sometimes I just stroke and when I'm ready to bust, she finishes the job. If she's in the mood and I'm not, I just eat her pussy, kiss her all over and give a back rub as we spoon.

 

I would not really generalize women like that, since, people can separate lust from love (often mistaken, when it's more of limerence). And on top of that, we men can be guilty of that as well, more so because we exercise or develop a strong sense of infatuation with others and when we're rejected, we often play the blame game and well...this is why the male vs. female problem persists...lack of communication. Love, or at the least the concept behind it is often lost on many people, as it's a word we often abuse.

 

The ignorance exhibited here is mind boggling and you wonder if some of these women actually have had relationships which lasted more than 2 weeks.
Men masturbating has got nothing to do with whether he has a woman or not. Do people have any idea the number of married men who masturbate? Most men masturbate to fantasies e.g. a sexy Hollywood starlet or an insanely attractive pornstar and this has nothing to do with the beauty or lack of beauty of his wife or girlfriend.

 

If he's doing it as a substitute for sex with his partner, he may be.

 

Guys, how would you feel if your partner regularly liked to masturbate, especially if you were in the mood? You want her but she wants BOB?

 

If he was cheating then cheating would be the substitute, don't you think? Why would someone need to jack off and have sex?

 

You really read into it didn't you lol
Who said regularly

 

I don't know - ask Appiah and TDK that question. I think that's the whole premise if this conversation.

 

As long as we have a healthy sexual relationship, what's the big deal? If we don't have a good sexual relationship, it wouldn't be due to the fact that she masturbates.

What I'm asking is how would cheating be related to jacking off??

Jackoff=nut
cheating=nut

They both don't need to happen in the same day.

 

Right, but if you haven't seen your side piece in a few days and you're horny but don't have sex with your partner and choose to jack off...

 

Seriously? :smt042

It's almost as if you know that it makes no sense to be jealous of a hand, so you find a reason to say he is not allowed to jack off. :smt043


Hint:

Maybe he just wants a good night sleep without a 45 min ab workout. :lol:

 

I'm not the one that gives that reason. I simply said the experts say if your partner is avoiding sex with you (and maybe masturbating instead), he/she may be cheating. The focus being on avoiding sex. Not everybody cheats with a regular partner, either.

I'd be pissed if my partner jacked off a lot. Save it for me, dammit. I'm expecting Mt Vesuvius to erupt and instead I get a little drip.

 

No one said anything about jacking off "a lot". That's for horny teens, not healthy adults.

 

When you're 50, a lot is twice a week. Lol

 

Oh? You are speaking from a biased pov. I get it. :smt036

I don't have those problems so

 

You're not 50 yet, are you? Lol.

 

No, but I truly believe that if you stay in shape 50 is just another number, so the thought of being 50 one day is not at all alarming.

If I'm single at that time, 30 year old women will still be on the menu. :drinkers:

 

Shit, I'm 47 and can still do 2 - 3 times a day. Only getting to bust one twice a week would be an issue for me in the relationship.

That said, sometimes a guy just wants to bust a nutt and be done. We have the most experience with the equipment. We know what to do to make it happen quick, fast and in a hurry. And, if you're trying to get to sleep, that's the best way to clear your mind and knock out. Wake up in the middle of the night, can't get back to sleep? Rub, twist, milk, done. Zzzzzz .......

 

Exactly