What's The Worst Part About Dating ... You?

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Tdk's posts confirms that there is really not much of a difference between fuck buddies and "girlfriends" same thing with fwb's. Nine times out of ten they are just fuck buddies. That's why I don't waste my time "dating". I just let it do what it do.

If you meet someone different you've got a keeper.

A keeper should be wifed up.

 

Soo....the worst thing about "dating" me is that although you will be respected and have a really good time you won't be taken seriously. :-D

 

How could you possibly know my status? Furthermore, you're the one that doesn't seem to be able to get along with people and arguments never end amicably. I rarely have that problem. I'm not the miserable one.

 

So you came in this thread to criticize me? Yup you're not miserable at all lol

 

I was reading all the comments, but yours just seemed particularly pathetic. I'm actually in a very good place in my life. But thanks for your concern. :smt039

 

People in a good place rarely if ever take the time to insult people especially completely unprovoked.
So like always I pity you and good luck boo boo.

 

I guess this is one of those rare occasions. I find it incredible that you've never had an argument end where both parties listened to each other and the issue was resolved. If that's truly the case, the problem isn't with other people. That's my opinion. If you take it as an insult, that's on you.

Smile! It's Friday!

 

So if I said you're crippling self esteem issues related to your weight and overall victim adopting personality were just my opinion that's ok ?
Awesome

You're right it's Friday and I'm smiling

 

ha that works

 

Wow someone's not had a lot of luck lately. lol. Sorry man, hopefully the ladies will give you some love so you can stop being so bitter.

 

You're so cute and funny

 

It's sounding like you've been hurt pretty bad in the past. I'm sorry and hope you can let go of bitterness and find happiness again

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Not bitter at all just talking about what I see and that's one of the biggest obstacles to communication. Anything someone doest agree with is automatic bitterness. At what point can any of it be truth?
It's like saying hey I don't think monogamy works that well. You sound bitter some girl must of hurt you.
Yeah we'll just ignore the divorce stats and the recent 40 million accounts on Ashley Madison instead of dissecting this thing and making it better.

 

Lots sucks about dating me but what men seem to get in a tizzy most about is that I don't make plans. Men say they understand this but they never do. I get why this would suck, I really do.

 

That's your assinine opinion which you formed from your own conclusions, not things I've said, but yep, it's your opinion.

 

My worst trait is my best trait. I have a hero/problem solver complex which means that I normally attract abusive manipulative women, and I stick around and try to work it out or "fix the problem" thinking that it's me when the problem is normally her. It happens. My need to solve problems works great in my careers and also allows me to be a caring friend. But, as I mentioned, my caring can easily invite a lot of crap too. I have found that if a person approaches you with a sob story about their ex or their life (basically, the "come save me from my past or all that have heart me" type of story), they are generally just trying to manipulate you into solving their fake problems (people who approach you with sob stories are normally only telling half the story anyway).

I think I've learned to keep my hero complex at bay these days and I have found the trademark abusive qualities people have so I can avoid them. Doing that has allowed me to maintain great relationships lately. I think some of our worst traits are often beneficial to us in other ways so it is hard to see sometimes. I think the hero complex is very common in veterans like myself, so I always have to be cautious not to go overboard.

In addition, the other bad trait is that I can be too analytical which goes hand and hand with my problem solving trait. But, I've learned to tone that down.

 

Yeah because your actions aren't telling. Again why are you in this thread?

 

Why are YOU in this thread? I don't see any rules stating who could and couldn't post here. Dude, methinks you're just miffed because my observation struck a nerve.

 

I posted what I thought was the worst thing about dating me. You didn't do that you came in here to take a shot and they play who me game like you always do. And no nerve struck I have always and will always admit to not being agreeable. I refuse to make someone else happy at my own expense but it doesn't make what I say invalid. Disagree all you want but get off my nuts. You're like a lame hs girl with a crush. For someone you claim to not like you always finda way to talk to me