What's the best part about dating ... YOU?

:smt043 satchmo you're giving my friend a heart attack lol, gotta be careful!!

Bug and Cherokee...I absolutely adore women who understand their worth!!! Very well done chicas!

 

ah hahahaha! I just caught that!! This negro is hilarious!

 

The stiffness ain't in my heart boo lol

 

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Lying about????? OK didnt want to brag but... lol

 

If that happens, please videotape it, preferably in HD. Thanks in advance!

Fixed lol.

Thank you, I'll be here all week.

 

lol just messing with ya

Hmmmmmm the best parts of dating me


Not a jealous bone in my body and I'm 100% certain of myself.

My girlfriend talking to guys or having male friends doesn't bother me at all. I don't control her and I take it as a compliment when dudes try to get at her.

Very protective

I'm always making sure she is safe and if anyone disrespects her, I'm on they ass like fire immediately. Nobody fucks with my girl.

A gentleman

If I'm manning the wheel in the car, if she hasn't made it to the car yet, I reach over and push the door open before she gets in. Once in a while, I like to dress up in casual business clothing or even a suit and surprise her for lunch during her break at work.

Thoughtful/considerate

I jot down or keep mental notes of everything she likes and dislikes. I keep all of these things in mind to make her day better.

Team player/competitive

I think of relationships as a team or a company and I do whatever I can to ensure we win or successful. Past gf's in college, I would offer and do they assignments for them to help out because they were holding down jobs at the same time, so I wanted them to unwind, relax, and clear they minds for the following day.

Open/secure myself

There is nothing above or beneath me. I believe male/female roles are interchangeable. For example, I can't even remember the last time my gf washed dishes and she has never cleaned the bathroom. I try anything atleast once.

Noncontrolling

It's never my way or the highway with me. My gf can do as she please, I will offer input on what I think is best, but ultimately its her choice.

Calm and collected demeanor

If shit hits the fan, I'm chill, calmly think things thru and calm her down to let her know shit isn't that serious. I'm hardly stressed out even tho I should be.

Very forgiving

No matter how bad she fucks up, I don't hold it against her, talk it out, reassure her she is fine, it's not the end of the world and keep it moving. Life is too short keep grudges against loved ones.

Resourceful

I will spend hours to whole days gathering all the information and material needed to complete whatever task. For example, Gf says she sick of her job, I'm right on craigslist or indeed shooting off her resume to folks and fielding phone calls for interviews.

Loving/affectionate/emotional

I've never been ashamed or embarrassed of showing open displays of love/affection to my gf no matter where we are. Holding hands, hugging, kissing, saying I love you why on the phone for everyone to hear is not foreign to me. I have a very emotional side too, some things in life pains me so much I've cried in public so many freaking times. If I'm feeling some type away, I don't hide it and it makes me feel a hell alot better bouncing those feelings off to my gf.

Willpower

I don't consider myself faithful or loyal like everyone else these days even tho I haven't cheated in my current relationship, but I have displayed some strong willpower. I try to my best to stay out of situations that could get me in trouble. I remember this one time, I got in a argument with my gf and I was accused of cheating for millionth time, I finally reached the point where I was like fuck it, I'm going to cheat just so all this bullshit I put up with is worth it.

Later that night at work, 8 fine ass college chicks came back from a night on the town. They were in good spirits and wanted entry to the pool which was closed. I told them for the right price they could go in and they gave me $30. They kept bugging me to join them but I declined, I was interested in entertaining these kids. I open up the pool for them and they immediately strip down in they bras n panties hopping in. This was a buffet of ass and titties for me. Skinny, thick, athletic, big tits, lil tits, big ass, yoga ass, black, white, damn. They still hounding me to get in, saying its ok, we got bfs/husbands too but I thought about my gf and how much it would hurt her if I did and just took my ass back to my post.

Not argumentative

Love a lively debate but soon as I see or sense her getting upset, I drop it. I'm also not the type to beat my point of view into a person if they don't agree.

Attractive

I try to stay in shape and rock form fitting clothing so she has something proud to look at.

Selfless

I always put the wants and needs of my gf before myself, even if what I need is necessities. So many times I been down to my last $1, gone without buying clothing, shoes, glasses, etc and I spend it on her just to see her smile. Everyday I constantly constantly ask is everything ok, do you need anything, let me know if you need anything. Atleast once a month I do a review on asking her where do I need improvement or what can make the relationship better.

Smart risk taker/gambler

I don't gamble on very important things but I do take risks that make life exciting and rewarding.

Smooth talker/manipulator

Comes in handy when it comes to bargaining for deals or acquiring an item.

Moderately knowledgeable

I may not know what everything is or means but I usually have a idea. If I don't know, I make sure I do know.

Economical sound/ Thrifty shopper

I look the best deals and I don't spend money just because

Adventurous

Always looking into new and exciting things to do together as a couple

 

One major positive trait I bring to the table in a relationship is that I am honest and loyal & won't cheat.
Furthermore I am a fighter with anything that is important to me - and if we care about one another I will fight for you and our relationship as well.
I support my boyfriend with battles,hardships and anything he may need a little help with.
I am not into arguments and only risk bringing something up that may turn into one if I think not talking about it would be more hurtful to our relationship in the long run.
I do not actively look for things you may be doing wrong or behind my back. Negative things show all by themselves eventually,so I consider it a waste of time and energy.
Affection is something I enjoy showing,whether it is verbally,physically or through little gifts and being attentive.
In most things I am at least willing to make sacrifices or even put my needs behind my boyfriend's.
I enjoy staying in watching a movie and cuddling just as much as let's say sightseeing,travelling,dining out etc.
Since I like picking up random fun facts,there may be some interesting conversations.
I love to cook and it's even more fun doing it for someone special.
Despite suffering from hypothyroidism I manage to keep my weight within ideal weight range by eating in moderation and staying active.
Being an armed security guard,I am a bit of a bad ass (guns,self defense etc).

 

Very nice, BY86!

 

I'm awesome!!! I care, I listen, I am loyal, honest, loving, affectionate, and I do not cheat. I always find new ways to express love from little gifts, to little gestures, to finding out the things you like and making sure I put some focus on them. I am great at solving problems, great at giving advice (although I keep advice to myself unless asked for it). I am in good shape, I look nice, I dress well, I have a good job, a degree, I workout a lot, well traveled, and I am eager to help those who deserve it (but not at the cost of my relationship). I own property, zero debt, and I like kittens and puppies.

I feel like I am pretty awesome all around. My past few relationships have been great and my life is moving forward and upwards.

I feel like

when I think about what I bring to the table.

 

Great answer. All very admirable qualities in a partner. You sound awesome

 

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I like cuddle naps.

 

I would have said your Canadian citizenship lol

 

But I don't want it. Trade?

 

Keep it. Good things may follow soon...if you are still politically active, that is.

 

Are you a magic 8 ball? Funny timing, since I just started volunteering with my polticial party yesterday LOL. I'd still rather American citizenship though.... maybe TDK will have to settle for just marrying me. So that way him and I can both have dual citizenship.

You game, TDK?

 

Bloc Quebecois, yeah? Next year is the election, but unsure of the numbers of actually ousting the Conservative Party without some heavy rallying and smart politics.

 

Actually Nikkers, Canada will still grant dual citizenship, but the USA will not. So depending on where you and TDK choose to settle down will determine who has what citizenship. Also if you two get married in Canada be prepared for a MOUNTAIN of red tape that has to be done for you to be able to come back to the USA, especially if you travel abroad for your honeymoon. Where do you think you two will be registered? I like to get my shopping done early. :razz:
I can see it now, Nikkers and TDK's big day.....http://www.squarespace.com/weddings...ebpage-us-search-weddingwebsitesforcouples_e)

 

:smt043 Wonder if we're all invited?!

Nikkers would be a great choice for you, TDK. One of the most easy going, undemanding people I've ever met. But poor girl would be stuck with you.