signs that you have found your soulmate.

http://www.powerofpositivity.com/10-signs-youve-found-soul-mate/

The article has top ten signs that shows you have found your soulmate.

Do u believe in the soulmate theory?why or why not?

Comment on the list....add on or confirm what is stated or disagree with the points in the article.

 

No such thing as a soulmate.

 

Because.....

 

It boils down to variables, which means, the more you consider your preferences, there are many people out there whom you can choose as your ideal type.

The concept of soulmate is just a rigid, unrealistic, fairy tale idea with some brevity of bias pertaining to some assumptions that aren't really factored into every person. Not only that, the ratio between men and women are uneven.

However, the overall factor is that, it's more important to find someone whom you are not only compatible with, but also can work with you and get through things in the long term, acknowledging that trials and tribulations will be daunting, but a lot of work and can pay off when things go your way.

 

I think you could rename the article: "top ten signs you've got a good friend."

"soulmate" is an elusive term, I think. It could mean any number of things, huh? We could each make our own definition/list and it would likely be different. I would have guessed "soulmate" was more elusive/mysterious/intangible/chemical than what the article describes. Sure, loyalty/trustworthiness, etc., is a good sign. But needs a little soul plane added

 

I think that there is no such thing as a soulmate,also. It depends on many things. Chief among these are the feelings of the couple. Are their feelings mutual? Maybe. I have met many people who thought that they had met their soulmate but got the opposite. The "Right Person", by and large, is a myth. It depends on the couple and not what family, friends and other people think whom is or whom is not compatible.

 

Agreed. I have had several lengthy relationships and felt at different times I was with my "soul mate." I truly felt it and believed they did, too. Hindsight shows that those relationships did not have the kind of longevity we both intended to have. None of the people I have loved fit a particular mold. Sometimes it was a physical thing and sometimes it was more about emotional closeness, but there had to be a meeting of the minds to get there. Intimacy is sometimes quickly achieved, but it can also grow out shared experiences and values.
Most recently, my soul mate - the one I thought was the big love of my life - became mentally ill and incapable of sticking with me. Saying "I do" implies that "I can." He just...couldn't. That tragedy is hard to accept, but knowing there are other possible "soul mates" - even if they are not a lifelong match - out there makes me a little more optimistic. It also makes me question my criteria for a mate at all. How can anyone guarantee that they will always be the same person, fundamentally - or that life will not change them into a person who is unloving or hard to love?
I am rambling. Right now I would say a smart, truly funny guy would be a great find. Oh, and if he is a good kisser and likes to, well, you know:smt083.... with ME just the way I am, well I would have myself a soul mate, at least for a little while