You know what I don't understand? Why someone would put this much energy into harassing someone? I mean, unless you're in the business of being a professional hacker, why even bother?
I don't know. There will always be people we don't agree with in life but to me the beauty of this site vs real life is that here we can log off lol. We're not forced to interact with, or engage, out of courtesy like those of us with manners do irl. It's unfortunate that it gets to the level it does here. We fight and bicker but taking it personally enough to go after someone irl is another level. So sad.
Going after someone's personal info that someone has not offered is way beyond not agreeing with them about some topic(s) or arguing. That's really twisted. There's no excuse for that. Of course, I'm assuming that the personal info was not offered. It's a little different if someone offers their FB or whatever other connection that would give them the information. Still, NOT ok to call or contact directly to home or work without expressed permission.
Telling you to STFU is not insulting you. K? So let me break it down for YOU.... Do you ever see some members with the words Banned under their name? Those are banned members. Imagine that? I highly doubt their offenses were as egregious as stalking another member beyond the forum to harrass them and try to get them fired. No one needs you to reiterate what was ALREADY said about going to the police, Einstein. Going to the police, and asking Webbie to address his behavior are NOT mutually exclusive. He should never be allowed to come near any female (or male) on this site again. Talk is cheap. Did you reach out to Webbie to offer the insight of her personal info being passed along to you. It's funny, when l saw that post, l thought even you realized a deep line was crossed. Yet tonight, when women here expressed for a smitten of a response regarding this stalker, you butted in to dismiss any kind of responsive expectation. Please. Webbie OWNS this site, the events originated here. Just because it's free, it doesn't mean members aren't entitled to be addressed on serious matters. We help drive traffic here which parlays into paid memberships, and our contributions on topics keeps this site in top search engines which again, can lead to paid members. It's not your place to tell anyone being harassed and stalked IRL they don't deserve a response from the site's owner. And that's why l told you to STFU.
By the way - anyone being stalked, harassed, etc should also report it to IC3 (Internet Crime Complaint Center)
No, but you can nip it in the bud. Roadblock the crazy. They tried to get her fired for loving black men. Beyond insidious.
Will pass that along to her. I was threatened by Aryans coming to my home, and l got the FBI involved. I don't play.
And them banned, right? On a similar vein, l don't know if it can be conveyed the sense of a lack of personal safety that women often experience. 99% of physical harm unto women is brought upon us by men. So women who UNDERSTAND that, respect that. Then factor in the most basic desire of a mother, which is to provide for and protect her child/children. Provide via income, protect from harm from crazies. Only mothers UNDERSTAND and RESPECT that. So whatever it takes<-- to put a stop to <--- anyone trying to eliminate any of those desires, should be encouraged and never dismissed, no matter how small it might appear.
Too many people think they can say and do whatever they want on the internet. Then there are those who extend it into off line too. They can think it's no big deal all they want but it is a big deal and it gets taken very seriously.
If someone is going after you irl, they have no place here. its affecting you and your ability to provide for your kids. It can not be tolerated.
It most certainly should not be tolerated!! Getting him banned here means and stops nothing. If anything it'd likely fuel him further. To me, I'd be more like "fuck that site, I'm getting justice irl". Stalking and harassing are HUGE issues and should be reported to the authorities, his reprocussions here are very menial in the grand scheme of things.
I know that we all can forget there are human beings, people , a person on the other side of the keyboard in who u cant see. I know i have cause i end up saying mean spirited things. Thats why i made the apology thread. I would hope people would be remorseful and people forgive and then stop it. It really goes over the line when u try to ruin someones life . I wish i never came here cause it made me a worse person. This is suppose to be a site or shpuld be where acceptance is a priority....but its not. I want webbie to delete my account
My friend, you just have to be able to take this site for what it is. Don't put a lot of stock in anything here because at the end of the day you don't know 95% these people. If this site ended tomorrow, it'd have zero impact on our lives so why give it more power than it really warrants? I enjoy it for what it is...shits n giggles Expect more and you're destined to be disappointed.
Dude seriously?? No need to do that unless you actually have some reason to hide your activities here under your screen name from others elsewhere on the internet, like your boy Paniro. If you no longer enjoy interacting with people here, then just don't log in. Simple as that.