is it good to be the submissive wife

Do you want to have input or do you really want to lead? Do you find that attractive. And yes I'm only posting in this thread because you're posting I could have given a fuck less previously :freehug:

 

There are times when I want to lead, and there are times when I just want to have input. I want to contribute just as much to my relationship as the other person - we should be on equal footing. Sure, there might be times when he's doing more traditionally man things, and there might be times I'm doing more traditionally woman things, but that should be because we *like* doing those things, and more specifically, we like doing them for each other. BUT, just the same, if he wants to cook dinner because he loves it, or he's a chef, or hell, he's just home early that night - EVEN BETTER. But those conversations should happen versus just saying 'Oh? Your PENIS dictates that I must clean the house and do the laundry? Well, let me tell you how long your penis is going to be waiting to be touched by anything besides Rose Palm and her 5 sisters.'

And man, I couldn't resist after our brief exchange about this place on FB last night. Had to come check it out. Same old, same old!

 

Do I need to post that pic again for you? lol

And if his penis is doing what it's suppose to it can dictate what it wants lol

 

here u go.....

 

just because a woman is submissive to her husband does not mean she is a doormat.

yes. when a woman gets married she should support her husband 100% and be his PARTNER. she should support his decisions and if he's out of line she should let him know. they are a team and they both have equal value.

 

well stated. i have always said men should be leaders ...not dictators.

a leader should have vision and the qualities i think it was samson stated....a woman should cosign it if it is wise.

 

Agreed. One of my closest friends is a brilliant young lady who is quite successful, and is absolutely no one's pushover. However she once told me that she has no problem being submissive, and recognizing her husband as the head of the household. She also said that this is fine as long as he's not a knucklehead, and makes common sense decisions. I totally agree with her.

 

So, what about submissive men

Where's the luv

 

lol

 

:smt043

 

There are very few men that I could respect enough to be/feel submissive toward. But there have been a couple that have really broken down my barriers and that was an extremely liberating feeling. They are getting harder to find, however, because a true man in the best sense of the word is almost impossible to find these days.

 

Fuck-all-at-shit. Things work better when things are equal. You just have to remember that equal doesn't always mean things are the same. A man may stay at home and take care of the kids while the wife works as an investment banker. Is the work they do the same? No. But, if they are both happy in their current positions it leads to a functioning unit. The same goes for two people who get married and both work. They are both providing and doing their parts. If both parties in a relationship aren't equally doing their part it is a fucking disaster.

I would also like to add that some women, men, transgendered people, non-binary people etc. have a natural personality trait where they come across as more dominant or submissive. There is nothing wrong with that. I just don't believe in forcing personality traits on people.

 

I never graduated elementary school.....what's this

 

LOL, I know that isn't true. Non-binary is kind of like a genderqueer category that refers to people who don't necessarily fit or identify with the two main gendered qualities of feminine or masculine (which is considered to be the gender binary).

 

:smt038

 

That goes double for women.

 

Not that I have been married before,but personally I believe a healthy middle would work best for me.
maybe 60/40,with the guy leading as 60%

 

Why would any man in the 21st century want a submissive wife? A major turn on is a woman who can challenge me intellectually and speaks her mind

 

Well

That wouldn't be too hard

 

You got jokes, someone else would have gotten a lecture but you went to college in America where your teachers are called College Professors without actually being Professors so.........