11 Things Not to Say to Someone in an Interracial Relationship

Anyone remember Ashlyn Sullivan, she is the Kansas waitress that was hit on by a group of customers and told them about her boyfriend to get them to stop only to be further insulted when they found out he is black well she penned and article for cosmo.



http://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/dating/11-things-not-to-say-to-someone-in-an-interracial-relationship/ar-AAbryQU?ocid=AARDHP

1. "How do your parents feel about you dating someone outside of your race?"

2. "Don't you want your kids to look like you?"

3. "But you look so innocent!"

4. "It's just a phase."

5. "You're never going to be able to date someone [your race] again once they find out you've dated someone [other race]."

6. Any food-related jokes regarding to the race of their significant other.

7. And any fetish phrases.

8. "Once you go black..."

9. "Are you rebelling?" Or, "What did your parents do to piss you off?"

10. "But aren't you worried about [insert racist stereotype here]?"

11. "Someone has daddy issues."

 

The black male equivalent would be asking shit like "What, you can't handle a black woman?" or "Why do you hate yourself?" There are a ton of others, too.

 

From this guy's blog...

'I was out with my white girlfriend at The Graham in East Williamsburg sometime last year and a black woman came up to me and asked me, "Why was I dating a white girl when she can't even get a man." Shit is crazy out here. I promise.'

 

dudes must understand how to be a convo jedi.

bw "why u dating a ww"

bm "why u worried...? there are no good bm out here...soooooo she, the ww, is dating the trash. hey she did u a favor"

 

Don't forget that "White women are taking all the good black men." :smt043

 

bm...."that means u need to up your game."

 

Lol..the opposite of "someone has daddy issues"

"You're just doing it to get back at The Man"

 

lol

 

bw "u just cant handle a strong bw."

bm "dont confuse arguing on every issue with being strong....thats being crazy"

 

Business as usual nothing surprising about this list, heard it all before.

 

This is really out of character for hipster ass Williamsburg. Wow

 

"You date/like black women??? Ugh" said to me by a few white women.

When I would inquire what's wrong with black women the answers were "dark skin is ugly...... But light skin girls are ok" "black women are ghetto" or "black women are loud"

Which is funny because some of the trashiest behavior I've ever witnessed privately and publicly were by white women.

 

Damn you illicit that kind of comfort where why ww comment on the different shades of black women? Damn
And they question why you as a bm would date a bw? The fuck?

 

This story is news to me

Smh

One should not be expected to 'handle' a black woman....or any woman for that matter

Leave that trash by the curb

 

Just being real, BW probably do have a legitimate beef about not being able to find enough eligible BM to date.


Black Dragon's 1.5 million missing Black men thread touched on it.
http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2015/04/20/upshot/missing-black-men.html?_r=1&abt=0002&abg=0
http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=26894

It's not the same as WM/WW who complain about seeing WW date BM.

 

That's because they have a bevy of Asian women to chose from.
Not to mention a whole lot of Russian and Ukraine women looking for huzzbands.

 

It's not just black women who assume some black guys date white women exclusively.

Yes your correct, I do illicit that comfort from everyone pretty much. Sometimes it can be disrespect and most times it's because I'm very open so they are comfortable expressing their selves truly.

 

TABERNACLE!!!

 

Cool story bro.

 

Bullshit...typical henpecked negro bullshit.

They'd complain even if we outnumbered them 10 to 1.
If they cherished us and longed for relationships with us...they'd be treating us a LOT better.

Black people are a SISTERHOOD...if there is to be any race-mixing it is THEM who we feel should be doing it.


ALL races have more women than men.

There are parts of Russian and Italy/Sicily where the ration between men and women is highest on earth....yet....you don't see them clowning on their men for dating IR.They don't want their teeth kicked in.


BM are scared of their own women..that is what's REALLY going on.