What are the characteristics and attributes your potential mate (LTR) MUST have and/or do? What characteristics and attributes must they NOT have or do? (This isn't about being p/c either.)
They must be a good father. They must be more positive/optimistic than pessimistic. They must be the type to speak their mind and stand up for what they believe in. They must have a sense of humor. They must be respectful and have manners. They must not be a passenger in life, waiting for things to happen. They must not be a stick-up-ass type. They must not be a liar, cheater or overall douche. I expect nothing from a man that I don't give in return. Loyalty with me will always be reciprocated ten fold.
Just be able to take care of yourself, don't stress me out, and have your own interests. Everything else is flexible.
Break it for me is a bad attitude, lazy, unwilling to listen to both sides, and unkempt appearance and unhealthy What I seek in a woman is a intelligent, classy, mature, somewhat aggressive and domme woman who is hardworking knows what she wants in life and in a man.
Make it's: They need to be good to their children, my children, and me. Intelligent, have it together, affectionate, compatible (sexually too), have a strong character, and be involved. Break it's: rude, obnoxious, poor hygiene, smokers, heavy drinkers, druggies, disconnected,
Looks like I'm out cuz. I smoke. My turn: I need honesty, loyalty, good health, INTELLIGENCE, down-to-earth demeanor(a luxury), & a Believer. I walk away from dishonesty, disloyalty, selfishness, small mindedness, STUPIDITY, savage behaviour, filth, & unbelief. After much trial-and-error, I have learned to chase after the character attributes 1st - and the physical stuff 2nd (most times).