How Long Should Sex Take????

I agree Petty. Men are always conditioned to cater to women's needs in the bedroom...yet they are never expected to even make an effort to cater to ours. Not complaining, just an interesting observation. Thanks for bringing up that great point!

I guess society's viewpoint on it is...in the dating/courting/chasing phase...men are the ones seducing and romancing the women and convincing her to date us...to give us a "chance"...so once we have "won" her...the "prize" (aka the VAGINA)...its on us to prove WE are worthy and put in the work to entertain and satisfy that vagina on ITS terms...meaning if it takes the woman 45 minutes to get off then the MAN (who is using a tool...his PENIS, which if used constantly for 5 minutes straight will EXPLODE) must somehow make sure he lasts that long.

 

Well good luck with that.

I think this is partly because women are conditioned to be "good girls" who aren't supposed to really want (or like) sex).

Things are changing. There are now some ads out there for women to "enjoy sex more" and so forth.

I'll help you with a little of the memory lane. I've posted numerous things over the years about how women are responsible for their own orgasms and that I firmly believe once they've had it REALLY good, they will go for it every time (multiple times). Men often don't like to hear that because they think it's all about them getting the woman there. Women don't like to hear that because they don't want to think there is something more they could be doing.

I'm not saying a man's skill level, endurance, etc isn't a factor. Just like size, it ALL matters.

There are many things that men and women can do to increase sexual pleasure. I don't think it's one sided. I think it's like anything else, learn what you can so you can have the best experiences possible.

A smart man is all about pleasing his woman because he knows he will end up receiving more than he could have ever imagined in return. Same for a woman in pleasing her man. But you don't come at it expecting.

 

It's on you if you are choosing to have sex with selfish females. Maybe you aren't picking well.

But I have a really hard time believing that your preference would be to go at it for a few mins and be done. Don't you want to go as long as possible? I mean if something is REALLY good....aren't you wanting to keep going and enjoy things as much as possible rather than "getting it over with"?

 

Nothin beats shooting a wad and passing out....the sooner the better, but women have been shaming men to the point where we feel obligated to suppress our excitement and delay our climax, when nature is saying 'SKEET, SKEET, SKEET!'

 

put a sign on your head say "sexually selfish"

 

yah ok ....obviously you are missing parts of the conversation.

 

It varies with everyone

 

It's goodlove.......if he did thoroughly grasp conversations I'd be worried....

 

Lol

 

Don't call the wrong play

 

You're so romantic. You must have a line down the block of women wanting to get with you in bed.

 

There u go over-estimating the value of women again........

The vast majority of women fake sex with men...why waste both our time with bullshit when I can squirt in a minute and you can please yourself more efficiently on your own

Stop making men feel bad for cumming too soon when your own lot needs to focus on how to get off early

 

Uhhhhh, who exactly am I making feel bad??? I can't say I've ever shamed a man for that. But what you described lacks any romance. Why even bother with a woman? You can shoot a wad and pass out by yourself. Which you seem to prefer anyway....

 

Hey at least I know nobody's faking it that way

 

Why do you care if they are faking it? They fake it to get it over with faster, so you are getting what you want.

 

Winner Winner Chicken Dinner:smt005

 

:smt043

 

:lol:

 

Geezus, remind me to never go allll the way over to Philly for a piece of that.