Single men in DC spend an average of $177 on first date

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by 4north1side2, Mar 10, 2015.

  1. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    I am completely against a dinner date for a first date altogether:)
    In rather do a afternoon coffee date, to check out if there is any chemistry

    For dinner dates, I prefer to split the bill to take out any confusion or assumptions unless the guy really, really insists
     
  2. K

    K Well-Known Member


    I heard they have a 24 hour wristband thing for some of the hotels/buffets in Vegas now. Did you get in on that?
     
  3. K

    K Well-Known Member

    What you are describing to me isn't a date. It's more a meet and greet. To me, a first date is someone you have met and you know you are interested in.
     
  4. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Thank you. I think so, too. Had this been a date and things were going well, I probably would've suggested we go somewhere for dessert - my treat. (And he would've gotten MAJOR points if he paid anyway. Lol.)
     
  5. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    I agree, that's not a date.
     
  6. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Me too. Rather spank you in some tennis, or go kayaking for a more cooperative venture.
     
  7. samson1701

    samson1701 Well-Known Member

    That kind of date also gets those pheromones rocking, too. Helps to create chemistry.
     
  8. Since1980

    Since1980 Well-Known Member

    For me, lunch is always a good compromise. It's usually cheaper than dinner and it doesn't have the same romantic overtones that eating at night does. Plus there's not as much pressure to make it drag on longer than it has to but extending it can always be an option, especially if it's the weekend.

    The only buffet that I really ate at was for breakfast. For everything else we stuck to restaurants.
     
  9. FG

    FG Well-Known Member


    I think its a date. Its not about what you do, the concept of a first date is still the same, feel each other out

    I agree with that
    And this:)
     
  10. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Spoken like a G

    There are tons of activities to do on a "date" and there are more than aren't so demanding physically. It certainly doesn't have to be expensive to be memorable.
     
  11. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Smart guy.
     
  12. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    1st link just leads to their website

    http://www.myfoxorlando.com/story/28196793/single-men-in-dc-spend-an-average-of-177-on-first-date

    I don't think they really did a survey, they probably made it up to draw in new members to their websites.
     
  13. K

    K Well-Known Member

    This is very true. A bit of creativity can go a long way, and it can be a lot more thoughtful than the typical dinner thing.
     
  14. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    I prefer an activity to eating on the first few dates...if it goes well maybe share a desert and coffee at night at a local cafe...dinner is too much pressure and when the guy pays he usually wants more:|
     
  15. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Where did you get all this for the price of Applebee's? lol
     
  16. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

  17. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

  18. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

  19. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    See? I may not like the Golden Arches but I can have a good time at a nice place with good food and not cost a guy a small fortune. :)
     
  20. KWillo

    KWillo Active Member

    Obviously you're not a South Florida woman then.lol.As I told people in a facebook group before, being single is expensive.
     

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