do u date who you are?

http://m.essence.com/2015/02/19/niecy-nashs-message-single-women-we-attract-what-we-are

niecy nash , a comic, tells women decide on what you want and be ready for it.

what she stated was something to think about...you date who you are.

do you agree?

 

“Know exactly what you want,” Nash. “That way, if it shows up, we are already ready. As opposed to just going along with the flow – don’t do that. Know exactly what you want and then be prepared for it.”

Nash encourages women to first look within as they begin their individual quest for love. “Be what you want to see,” says Nash. “We are going to attract what we are!” Truth.

I think there is some very good advice. People often claim to want certain things but when it shows up they bolt. It goes back to the old saying "be careful what you wish for".

I don't know about attracting what we are. If I look at the men who have approached me over the years, most were very different (overall) than I am. I think if you really look though you can find similarities and differences between any 2 people. Depends on what you are looking to find.

Anyone I've been in a relationship with has had very similar core values though.

 

yeah....i feel u. i think people really need to know who they are and what is needed