... a lot of people don't even know me that well to even remotely offer 'matchmaking'... and family is scattered across the country so my ongoing single status rarely comes up.. I guess it's just assumed "I'm doing my thing", lol..

 

I'm not a friend of matchmaking. Most people have tried to match me with:

1. Another sista, even though we had NOTHING in common.
2. A very unattractive white woman. Then I have to check my friend, like "Look, just because I'm black doesn't mean I date ugly WM."

 

What did this "ugly wm" look like?

 

Wait, what?

 

Lol I meant "WW".

 

Gfunk is on that mentally swift game...nothing gets past this guy..few tried...many have failed

As for the idea that bm literally don't have any standards when it comes to ww, because they're white and bm are thirsty as fuck over em

Well......I'm not touching that one with a 30 foot pole while wearing an ebola suit

 

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Too bad that interracial speed dating events haven't really become a trend..

http://helloquizzy.okcupid.com/tests/the-racial-preference-test-1

 

Interesting video VT

 

really interesting. just says no one's got a handle on what's what in dating. I kind of like that.

 

I'm not a fan of matchmaking. In the past when female friends suggested someone to me... They'd always say that they were very pretty and/or had a nice body, and I usually didn't agree. Even the last girl I dated wanted to match one of her friends with one of mine. She was askign me if he knew her frends was beautiful, and again... I didn't think her friend was beautiful. Funny thing is that many of my male friends probably could match me at least in terms of their appearance.

 

I think sometimes women find beauty in more than just looks. Example...I think all my friends are gorgeous, but possibly I feel that way because I know what amazing women they are and sometimes personality makes people even more beautiful. Like when you're not attracted to someone up front but once you get to know em...you fall all in love.

 

Agreed! I always took it as... They're saying that the person had inner beauty first, and foremost. I can appreciate where they were coming from, and I never found the young lady to be unattractive, but the few times it happened... I wasn't attracted to the person. Recently, I was bragging on 4 of my close friends who I think are great guys, and good catches for any woman. A couple of women at work thought two of them were hot, one so-so, and the other funny-looking. I would also agree that I personally can stand to be a bit less superficial.

 

Physical attractiveness is what gets someone's attention at first, I don't think that's superficial I think it's just human nature. Now, if you're unable to see beauty beyond what's on the surface, then yea - you may be a tad superficial lol.

 

i agree... i dated a woman i wasnt attracted to at first site. the only thing she had going for her was her butt. she was a 6 at best. but when i got to know her she became a beyonce.

hell my friend said " when i first saw her i was like why in the hell. but when i got to know her then i got it"

 

I think most women are liars because we all have the eye to discern what is attractive vs what is beautiful on the inside. If you're trying to pass your 200lbs friend off as hot some part of you has to know you're lying either that or a lot of women ignore what men find attractive opposed to what they think we should be attracted to.
Men rarely if ever do that we know what girls are going to go after. I have two best friends, one is a firefighter the other an IT guy. Both the stereotypical images of what you think the occupation looks like and I know for a fact if my girl were to ask me if I had a "hot" friend for any of her friends vs a "good guy" I know which is which. Both good guys but only one is "hot" in the traditional sense of the word.

 

yup, I agree with most of this. I'm not so good on the most women are liars but everything is truthful.

 

Maybe not so much liars but dishonest. And work in hyper extremes. A lot of them think if a man is unwilling to date a 200+ woman that all we want are women who are slim and 105 which leaves out a ton of people who are comfortably in the middle. They also tend to think they know what's best for their friends.

 

So, in your opinion, are most men liars too?

 

Depends on the context of the situation. For matchmaking no, but in order to get sex a lot have been. But the current social trend seems to favor honesty and a general laziness or need to lie because current technologies make it so easy to meet people who are aligned with your sexual desires and goals.
I feel like people in general are lying less because of this.