Older woman-younger man relationships, can they last?

One of my best relationships was with a 32-year old woman when I was 19. I'm not sure that was a "relationship" per se, lol, but it felt like one to me. Lol

 

Lol. You was a boy toy

 

relationship of that sort can last, just like any other constellation. if the base is right then age really doesnt matter.

 

LMAO. No, goodlove. I was in love.

 

Lol..ok...ok

I usually dated women older than me. The oldest was 17 years older. Her daughter and i went to college together....(the daughter was fine as fuck). I was 26 at the time....that was good sex. Yes i was a boy toy....lol...and

The best relationship was not much of an age difference....she was about 5 to 7 yrs older

 

If the gap is wide like 10 years or more then nope most of them wont last cus ultimately the younger guy would go in for a younger woman down the line.

 

Maybe...but i can see your point

 

I spent the bulk of my time with her in awe of her. I was in undergrad and she was in Chicago representing clients from her country doing business in the US. She was hyper-intelligent, too. Only average-looking, but her brain was the sex organ.

 

In general I think this combination is better win it's more along the lines of casual/not too serious. Of course they'll always exceptions.

Funny thing with me is that I've never been able to get them older than I am. Nearly everyone I've dated after I turned 30 is almost always 4-7 years younger. One was a full 10 years younger. I guess it helps that I'm a bit youthful, even at the ripe old age of 49 y/o

 

Lol you were a young gigolo

 

I totally agree

 

I thought I was in heaven, lol.

 

My take on this subject is this; like dating, leading to marriage, it depends on the couple. If the couple clicks, they click. On the other side of the coin, I think that a casual fling between an older woman and a younger man is one thing. Marriage is another thing entirely. In conclusion, it can work but it depends on the couple and the nature of their relationship.

 

They can last. Mine lasted for nearly 5 years. I was 19 when we met, she was approaching her mid 30s. Age or maturation, nor boredom or wanting to explore and date around isn't what split us, it was me realizing that we valued certain things differently. They were there from the very beginning, things that seemed minor in the grand scheme but ended up being big a source of anxiety and frustration for me.