what do you find attractive....

The Im hanging out at a local bookstore near the coffee stand and in comes a few women....they were all their own style and various level of beauty. All had decent (ok) to great bodies.

One girl in all honesty wasnt as good looking as the rest but to me the most attractive. Maybe it was the way she carried herself that i found sexy.

What gets your eye when a women or man walks in?

 

Vibes, charisma, attitude. Good looks mean nothing to me when a guy is a douche or too plain.

 

What you mean too plain?

I think i know but i dont want to put words in your mouth

 

Anything could catch my eye, depending on the guy. If I see him in passing, body will usually catch my eye first. Love me a big dude :smt050 How he's dressed, how he walks/talks/interacts with others...all things that will catch my attention. If he approaches me, I notice teeth, skin, breath lol. All things indicating he does (or does not) take care of himself in the most basic sense lol. Gotta past that first level to get anywhere with me

 

I always first notice a woman's fashion sense, smile, personality, body, hair, and the way she carries herself.

 

In order of priority:

A pretty face
Solid educational background and intellectual curiosity
Good manners
Morally superior to myself

 

Holla

 

Easy task, i suppose. :smt081

 

I so love how you can read me :smt055

 

I was in a similar situation not long ago. Then a nice Z06 caught me eye through the window behind them... Oh well.

 

:smt043

At least you kept it real.

 

I notice reserved, stoic men. Men who have a presence, but are not 'look at me' I don't like showoffs.

I love if he "appears" intellectual, since I like a man's mind. If those qualities are on point, his physical features will generally become beautiful to me, because everyone has something beautiful about themselves.

 

When you already have that person the compliment you and vice versa catching falls to the bottom of the list. I've had my share, now I'm at the point where a nice car trumps pretty faces and nice bodies.

 

Ouch, careful I'm sensitive.

 

I used to watch tv, waiting on a boyfriend to get ready to go out. He'd come down the stairs and be like "are these jeans hot or what" and look in the mirror. He was from LA.

Another guy I was seeing waited for me to come out and see me and be like "you look great. let's go." He was from the south.

I'm not attracted to self-absorbed men.

 

"Normal" or boring.

 

Since the question was 'what catches my eye on first glance', I'm obviously going to leave out personality stuff.

My dating history suggests that I'm into 5'4" to 5'7", brown eye, brunettes of slim to average build.

If a girl always has that going to or coming from a club look, that is a real turn off. Give me the classy business look (pencil skirt, black heels and well fitted blouse), surfer look (jean shorts, tank top and flip flops), or hippie look (tastefully tattered jeans, unassuming shirt, barefoot or flip flops and unshorn vagina).

 

Eyes and smile

 

Im with u on that. But im a real sucker for the business looking woman