Should white mom be paid for brown baby mistake?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by hellified, Oct 14, 2014.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Its not about right or wrong....its dollars and cents
     
  2. FRESH

    FRESH New Member

    Some are painting her as a racist because she wanted offspring that reflected her union and didn't get that, now she's upset. I think I would feel the same way if I had a white wife that had in vitro, got pregnant, and had a white child. I would be upset, sad, mythed, etc because "my" child didn't reflect my Union. I would love the child just the same, but I would still be pissed and want some type of compensation, you honestly wouldn't?
     
  3. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    Uh yeah the company screwed up and they are financially liable

    The moment you pay for something, especially when it involves a medical procedure, is the moment you expect and deserve to get what you ordered, case closed

    Some of you people are acting like it's all good if you went in for a rhinoplasty and came out looking like Pinocchio

    Be real
     
  4. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    They screwed up

    I'd love the child regardless, but I would want money too because it's not as simple as exchanging a hamburger for a cheeseburger now is it
     
  5. hellified

    hellified Active Member

    you wouldn't love the child just the same tho...you wanted a black child and got a white one..there are children who know their parent wanted a boy and got a girl or vice versa and picked up on that disappointment.

    my issue isn't that she upset about a mix up..thats legit..but she goes on about how much of an inconvenience it is to have a black child considering where she lives and her family's attitude toward black people.. this lesbian who lives in a society that biased against gays is saying that dealing with race somehow much more of an inconvenience for them..has anyone considered that the child has to deal with not ONLY race issues but two white lesbians parents she didn't ask to be born to...

    also I don't like the way she allowing this to be public considering theres documented proof the child was literally an accident. What child wants to know that about its conception..
     
  6. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    I think the kid would have more pressing issues

    Like never meeting her real father or questioning why the fuck her parents went the artificial insemination route in the first place

    Try explaining that one over tea and biscuits
     
  7. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    That like others said....they will have explain the lawsuit
     
  8. FRESH

    FRESH New Member

    Indeed, I hear where you guys are coming from, larger issues. And I couldn't imagine having to try and explain that situ.
     
  9. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    What's so hard to understand about suing a medical facility that didn't give you what you paid for

    That's easy to explain to a kid and I'm sure they would agree, because the facility has to be held liable for screwing up a serious procedure

    Hopefully they will learn from the suit

    In the end, suing doesn't mean that you love what you have less
     
  10. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    This is the thing about black folk, anything that involves a back person we quickly take sides without being rational. The company GOOFED and must be held responsible for their MISTAKE. This has got nothing to do with racism, they paid for something and didnt get what they wanted so they have the right to sue and get paid. Period :cool:
     
  11. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    He didn't shoot at the cops, he was holding a ham sammich!

    Gun residue on his hands you say? So what!

    Pictures of him posing with handguns, who cares!?

    :shock:
     
  12. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    lol
     
  13. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    #keepit100
     
  14. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    #outofcontrolwiththehashtags
     
  15. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    BRB attempting to find a fuck to give

    :p
     
  16. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    lol again
     
  17. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Explain it to the kid. Who cares about the rest of soceity
     
  18. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Had she went with the natural order of life and fucked a MAN....... Situation avoided. Just my 1 cent.
     
  19. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    LOL

    it's kind of a 'that's what you get for messing with nature' moment isn't it
     
  20. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Lol. Classic
     

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