Yes, the money attracts the beautiful women but that does not necessarily mean these rich men will keep the girls. If a guy has money and no game he's not going to be able to keep women satisfied. They're just gonna use him for his money.
Yeah but there are women out there who will fuck you and hang around for however long you like if you can upgrade their lifestyle. I'd much rather be a rich dude who bumped a chick's wardrobe and gave her jewelry to keep me 'company' whenever I called her when I was in town instead of paying an escort for the privilege. A female who sees you as a reliable ATM machine is NOT going to shoot you up with an overdose of heroin.
'Most' women?? An escort for sure isn't going to improve your opinion of females.:smt043 Just like whores start thinking all men are nasty, selfish ass pigs. The sex trade isn't the place to see the best examples of humanity. You need to find those things you truly enjoy doing outside of work and find your type there.
True. She will definitely hang around and be his "sugar baby" but she will still see dudes like myself on the side :smt043. If I was a rich man I wouldn't be a trick and pay for escorts. If I am not married by then, I would keep young beautiful women around but I will put their pretty asses to work. They're gonna have to earn the gifts, affection, attention, etc. They will definitely have to cook for me, clean, and do whatever I say. That bitch was a dope fiend renegade hoe. Those type of hoes are ruthless and dangerous. She was too high to see her trick as a reliable ATM machine.
You still have to worry about STD's with regular women. To the contrary, escorts get tested for STDs/HIV more than regular women so you'll be alright! :smt023
It's societal conditioning. You'd be hard pressed to find a truly loving relationship. It's usually a business transaction and most attractive women don't have much of a personality. They never needed one
Sure was, wasn't it?? I honestly feel bad because I think he truly believes most women are just as he said. To be that jaded about women as a whole, is crazy to me. Don't get me wrong, I believe there are women out there just as he describes...but I think they're far from "most".
You people see what you want to see. Go ahead and lie and say money isn't a huge determining factor for most women.
yeah, when we try to say different we are wrong. we never said money didnt help. we said a good convo and personality seals the deal
Take twenty minutes to go through female online dating profiles. I'm sure men are just boring the major difference is most men don't believe it's a woman's job to entertain them. I've yet ever meet a woman who can just be, if she's not "living life to the fullest" something is wrong. Oh and guess who they usually want to ppay for it lol
Why do we have to be lying if we say most women don't take money as a "huge contributing factor"? You know only what you've experienced as a man or what you've heard from friends. FFG and I ARE women. We hear the truth from women about what attracts them to men and what characteristics hold the highest weight for them. Money never hurts (just like a woman having big boobs and a cute little booty never hurts), but neither is enough to sustain a relationship. So no...money isn't a "huge contributing factor" for most women. To me, it's no more of a factor than "are you single", "do you work", "can you financially support yourself", etc. If the attraction is there and all those answers are yes...I'll give you a shot whether you make 30,000 or 130,000. I guess it depends on the type of woman you're looking for. If you're interested in an educated, intelligent woman then you should have no problem. If you're chasing 18 year olds then yea...they probably want you to pay, entertain and lead their way. They're used to mommy and daddy doing it for them so why not see if they can jump right to a boyfriend taking over those same responsibilities. And I have seen many profiles, men and women (I've already admitted to being nosy lol). Sure there are some men who look boring as hell, and some girls who write like spoiled princesses...just keep it moving. Aim higher maybe. There are wonderful men and women everywhere...can't let a few bad experiences (or stories of bad experiences) cloud your vision about an entire gender. Most people are good. Consider this...in America, someone is raped every 2 minutes. I've spoken before of personally having to deal with this. Would it be appropriate for me to believe most men are rapists? It happens...it's happened to me...but are most men rapists? Fuck no. Dramatic difference between rape and gold digging, but just trying to prove a point. Just because it happens doesn't mean MOST people do it.
You bring up a really interesting point. I want you or any woman to post a dating profile of a good woman and/or good man. We may be looking at totally different sides of the moon. Btw if salary is no issue for most women why dont I EVER see a woman as excited about dating a manager from a grocery store the way she does a manager for a hedge fund. You sound ridiculous.
My guy makes about 60% of what I make...but he loves what he does!! Have you seen me bragging around these parts these last 6 months? Not sure why you don't see it (maybe its you who sees what he wants to see)...I see it all the time. My ex husband made less than me our entire time together...and I was happy for at least 14 of our 16 years together lol. Some of the happiest relationships I know, have partners who make the same amount of she makes more. No matter what I say though, it won't sink in. Continue as you were love.