Cold Approaching women

I believe a dime is a combination of both physical attractiveness and mindset. If a woman is stunning with a fucked up attitude she isn't a dime IMO. She loses a point or two if she's a bitch. Beauty is as beauty does!

 

Physical Dime: Natasha Henstridge


Intellectual/Personality Dime: Catherine Keener


Blend the two: Monica Bellucci, lol

 

i think the problem for a lot of guys is just getting the mindset.

for me i like getting my mind rite before i leave the apt....during a drive to where ever...i listen to some real macking music like some marvin gaye or teddy p.

women can feel that sexual vibe from you along with the witty convo

 

Yet you haven't a had woman since the 90s go figure lol

 

ah ha ha
u so funny 0 and 8.

 

Most women who get that sexual vibe from a man usually runs away or stay because they think he is "hot." Or that he is a bad boy type.

 

I'll say this Although I have never just walked up to random women if I did approach a woman it was usually based on a common interest. Like for Example I'm into 4wheeling and usually that is a coversation starter right there If I feel the vibe is good and there is general attraction then I will use humor to make it more interesting and nothing is wrong with a good laugh. Sometimes being good with words and knowing how to finesse is more important than how attractive one is. However on the flipside of that there are people out there that will not care how confident one may be if they don't meet certain standards or some over the top bullshit preference the person will get rejected. That's one reason why if I do see a woman I was raised to keep a fresh mouth and a fresh haircut and dress nice it may not get me anywhere but its at least a step in the right direction. Oh and being a Black dude with a Rock Crawler doesn't hurt either hahahahaha

 

i get what you are saying.....but what im saying is a woman wants to feel

1. a leader
2 confident in the romance department.

initially that is.....she qualify you during convo...

 

Here's another cold approach story for y'all!

So on Tuesday I was food shopping at Trader Joe's and I was on the prowl being hungry like the werewolf of London. So I found me a target and she was a cute brunette WW with glasses. So I said to myself, "I'm 'bout to catch her ass." So now I'm watching her and waiting for the perfect time to "mack attack" lol. So I noticed she was walking towards the checkout line with her basket, so now I'm thinking she's leaving. So now I'm like "fuck it I'll find someone else." So now I'm walking around with my basket of groceries, I'm pretending to look at food but I was really checking out women. So I see her again but this time she has a cart, so I'm thinking "oh hell yeah I got action, I am going to get her ass for sure!" So now we are both in the same aisle and I pick up a bag of linguine pasta and I go up to her like "excuse me, you look like you can cook, do you know a good pasta sauce I could use on this?" So she says "oh I usually like to use olive oil on that." So we ended up talking for like 5 minutes and I gave her my card and told her to text me. She texted me that night and we texted each other until about midnight.

Her and I went out last night and we had a great time. She told me that I really impressed her with my approach. She was like "it was very impressive and it was a legit question but I knew what was going on and I was playing along with the game." She told me that I made her day because she just got off work and was tired. She also said it was refreshing to not meet someone at a bar or club when she's all fixed up. She's a cool girl and she's from NJ like me so I might have to let her keep me. Lol

 

Nicely done!!

 

Thanks

 

Romance is not realized during a conversation between men and women. Not initially. A woman wants a man who has the strength and courage similar to or greater than her father's strength and courage. The father is a leader. But he cannot be a lover in the physical sense. The woman looks for these qualities in men in her daily life. But, it is the woman whom has the power of choice. Men have this power, as well. But, it is up to the woman.

 

true...but they want a man who has the vibe...."gurrrrrl i will fuck you six ways to sunday."

then that other stuff you mentioned yadda yadda.

 

Lol

 

To this day I can't tell when I'm being flirted with. I just left the bar and it just dawned on me two girls flirted with me. I went into the bar and sat next to a pretty blonde girl who was talking to her friend (it was the closets seat to the entrance). Her friend goes to the bathroom and I continue to watch the game. Shorty keeps looking at me and flipping her hair but I pay it no mind. She says to the bartender can you give me what he's having it looks good. I get up to go put money in the jukebox when I get back blonde girl number left with her friend. Five minutes later two different girls come from the other side of the bar with their drinks and greet the guy two chairs down and me. They play with their phones for a couple of minutes then the blonde asks whose playing when the names are clearly on the screen. Again paid it no mind and just mumbled Mets and Rangers. Epic fail. I deserve to be single for life. Smh

 

Damn! You definitely missed out on that opportunity, fuck that baseball game! The only game you need to worry about is the dating game and you just struck out my man! Lol

 

:smt043

 

Handkini! :smt043:smt043

 

I know where you've been. I am not good at reading signals. I could read or see for other people, but not for myself. I need action like a woman slipping me a phone number in my pocket. Or for her to simply invite me to her table for a chat. But, they're not interested in me. It's all for the best.