Rock Bottom Low Self-Esteem

Which borough?

 

Spoken like someone who doesn't have to do it. That truly is the most annoying thing about you, you spit out your "wisdom" as if you ever have to apply it. It's easy to have a positive attitude about something you don't have to actually do lol

 

Actually from Westchester County. I'd be more specific but I got too many damn haters on here lol

 

Got it

 

its not about earning, its about confidence or like the title of this thread self-esteem.

all the non sense about ir can be used as an example of the mindset of people in California, we are not about all the bs that other states are about.

Californias are different, we think different, we act different, our weather and our culture is different.

i have yet to read about someone from California having an issue relating to their self-esteem... i could be wrong as i not a seasoned vet like others.

exactly!

dont get me wrong, there are confident people with high self esteem in other states on this forum but from what ive read on the forum it seems people in other states need to learn from our attitudes out here.

 

Absolutely true. I've told you a hundred times that I recognize how easy it is for women with regard to meeting and dating. I know though that when a stranger catches my eye, I couldn't care less whether he digs me or not. There's a million other fish in the sea if that ones not in to me.

I love annoying you with my wisdom btw lol

 

Of course you could care less because you don't have to risk embarassment or rejection lol. If you know its ridiculously easy for girls why do you comment on it in regards to men?
It's like me telling you to weight train and take some Krav Maga so you can walk alone in empty parking lots or alone from the bar. My circumstances are completely different and I recognize that

 

Just because you're not a woman doesn't mean you don't understand the need for women to be able to protect themselves. Your advice for weight training or Krav Maga wouldn't be inappropriate at all. Unlike you, I'm able to recognize good advice even when it comes from someone who may not need to heed that advice.

 

Never mind deaf ears in affect. Smh

 

You're seriously such a dork lol. It's a disagreement...not deaf ears. I hear what you're saying, I just happen to have a different opinion on the subject.

If your current approach with women works for you then keep doing it. If you keep hitting brick walls then at some point maybe you should open up to the fact that I just might be on point with my way of thinking. My way of thinking tends to fall in line with the men here who have no issue approaching/meeting/pulling quality women so...

I know, I know. You don't have an issue meeting chicks, you're just fighting for those that do. Carry on youngin.

 

I was about to get on my soapbox but read your last two lines lol
BTW I'm a whole six weeks older than you young in

 

Lol I love soapbox TDK! :freehug: And yes, you are 6 weeks older but somehow I always feel like the grown up in this relationship You need a trip out this way just so I can prove to you how right I am about all the wisdom I speak

 

Its on my list. Toronto Saturday. Denver next Friday for work. DC the following week. Frequent flyer miles about to go up like a mug lol. SD in fall hoping its on the company's dime.

 

Is it the 5k Denver trip?? How exciting!

SD during any season will prove to be an awesome trip...especially if its all on your company!

 

Hey, hit a girl up when you get to Denver

 

Really? Totally will.

 

Looking forward to it

 

Werd.

When a woman gives you advice about MEN, as a man you'd be best served to listen.

Almost all the advice I've had about dating from women has ALWAYS upped my game.

They're giving you the keys to the kingdom!!lol

 

Either you're ass kissing or you have the best female friends on earth.
Here's my issue with female advice on getting women. One they themselves rarely know what they want and end up dating a bunch of "assholes" so the advice they give never lines up with the kind of guys they actually date and two they themselves never have to approach anyone so how on earth could they know what works?
And most advice is subjective, do you think Shemar Moore needs or could use the same advice you'd give to Kevin Hart? Two totally different guys so they'd lead with two totally different approaches.
As a hunter you're better off sharing notes (macking notes lol) with other hunters than asking prey how it got trapped. Fact of life homie

 

I always take a woman's dating/relationship advice with a grain of salt. I've learned things from women but I don't believe women are going to tell you the real deal. Most of the things I learned about women, dating/relationships is from trial and error and dudes that have a good track record with women.