Rock Bottom Low Self-Esteem

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by satyr, Jun 24, 2014.

  1. qwils86

    qwils86 New Member

    Lol you're gonna love me even more once the Giants make it to the Super bowl again
     
  2. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    no doubt
     
  3. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Dude I root for the Giants when they play so I'd be fine with them going to the SB! Heck I've had Victor Cruz in my fantasy line up for the past 2-3 years and plan to draft him again this year! Plus y'all have Trindon Holliday and Odell Beckham now (LSU baby!!!) so I'll be cheering your boys on, no doubt :freehug:
     
  4. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    exactly! sure we are human and we all get down but dont waste engery on the pity party when you could use it to advance yourself.

    luda said it best "It's not the hand that you're dealt but how you're playing your cards"

    ill say it , my shit does stink, im not on welfare, have two kids that i am in love with and support. can i offer sound advice? yep!

    the funny part, its less about living in California and more about how people feel about themselves.

    a person with low self-esteem wouldn't think they can get the 6 figure job so they wouldn't even apply, the part the gets me is how people can let their situation affect them in turn producing low self-esteem.

    sure when i got out of prison i didn't have nothing to my name and after having the head California's Realtor board tell me id never get a Realtor license based on my felonies I didn't sulk in my own pitty I found something else to do. when my daughters mom kidnapped them to the other side of the country i did sulk in pitty for a few weeks, i am human but i used all that frustration to land my first 6 figure job.

    i didn't get to where I am at now in life because of California, I got to where I am because i had drive and determination.

    don't get it twisted, i prolly pay in child support what most of you pay in rent, i drive an 11 year old Acura
     
  5. qwils86

    qwils86 New Member

    You just made my morning Raider :D
     
  6. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    we having church in this mofo
     
  7. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    PREACH...nothing to do with geography...everything to do with desire, drive, ambition and belief in yourself...everyone should have a succession plan for their life...where am i now and where am i going next...6 figures doesn't buy happiness but knowing you got there by hard work and determination is a sweet feeling:cool:
     
    Last edited: Jun 25, 2014
  8. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    hahahahha!

    agreed!

    the only problem with 6 figures, you realize its not enough.... an old boss of mine, her boss made $750k a year and he still wasn't happy where is was at.

    why cry over spilled milk?
     
  9. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Six figures and not enough? Made $750k and not happy? Wow.
     
  10. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    California problems!
     
  11. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Sorry, I meant when you were in Cape Coral.
     
  12. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Six figures would top me off. I could get the last puzzle piece missing in my life!!
     
  13. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Six figures would be more than enough. I wouldn't be able to spend $100K anyway, unless I just became Mister Consumer.
     
  14. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    You'd probably be surprised. It doesn't go as far as one would think, unless you're making that kind of money out in the country somewhere. If you're in a large city you can go through that kind of salary just by living...especially if you have kids. Living decently of course, but far from "well-off".
     
  15. AlmostThere

    AlmostThere Active Member

    Exactly. This is what meant when I was posting about BM auto-trolling themselves.
     
  16. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Hey now, watch your mouth!!! Lmfao
     
  17. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Lol I meant that with all due respect! Trust me, I day dream about the things I'd do with my salary out there! The type of home I could own, the savings I could build...the shoes and clothes I could buy :smt061 :D There are perks to southern living, no doubt :freehug:
     
  18. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    I know babes. That's why I can't move. Life is great for me down here. If I made that 6 fig it would be unreal!
     
  19. fantasyfangrl

    fantasyfangrl New Member

    There I fixed the most important part of that post for ya! ;)
     
  20. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    agreed!
     

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