Cold Approaching women

When you're looking for a wife there's no better place to find a woman ready to settle down to domestic tranquility.

Not saying all them church broads are saintly, just better odds you'll find a woman who's got similar spiritual values who's looking to find a husband too.

SOOOO much hooking up happens on Sunday!!lol
But you can't be bed-hopping in the church. You can strictly 'date' multiple women but if you're a love 'em(err fuck em) and leave em type, if that rep gets around you might be asked to leave the church family if it causes static with members.

 

If I were on the market and a believer that's probably where I'd go for wifey material.

For my L.A. players.

Oasis Church on the corner of Wilshire and Normandie attracts a lot of young women and the Regent Theater in Hancock Park (on La Brea) doubles as a church on Sunday. Mostly sisters and more of a Hollywood crowd (P. Diddy, Lamar Odom) at the Regent.

 

Do people actually do this in church?

 

Cold approached two women this weekend. One was at a food truck. We clicked, but she's been living here for two months and already has a boyfriend.

I also hit up a Nordstrom's employee. Got her # but an hour and a half later she told me she had a boyfriend.

I need to cold approach more because you will still have good outcomes putting yourself out there and with practice find someone. I've gotten dates and actually was in a serious relationship based on cold approaching.

One thing I'm trying to work on is smiling more.

 

I'm not the "hit and quit" type so I should be alright lol

I heard about the Oasis Church and I need to check it out one day. I go to Mosaic on Hollywood and La Brea, there's a lot of cute WW. Have you heard of this church?

 

I'm cool with it except when the man says something like, "Got Dayum You Fyne!!" (or a cheesy pickup line). :smt061

 

So you would prefer Got Dayum you average? I thought women liked compliments. Maybe he meant it

 

I remember telling a woman she had nice knees and she was quite fascinated and said nobody told her that before. I told her i bet most men told her she was beautiful and some crude ones told her she had a nice ass and tits( see how i told her she had nice ass and tits without her getting offended) but no compliment of her hot knees. We hit it off and thought i was endearingly quirky

 

:smt043:smt043:smt043 no but maybe something a little uhm ... less dramatic? I mean my kids were with me lol.

 

Well played sir!

 

I think it's flattering

But you have less than a minute to get me interested.

 

If a man really attracts

I will go all the way with him.

 

Lets keep it 100.... When cold approaching a woman, looks and appearance matters just as much as he's saying. Probably even moreso in a cold approach than normal.

 

Being average-looking is probably less of an issue the longer you have to display positive personality traits, but at first blush I would think it's all about looks because you have nothing else to go on or judge from.

 

i agree with stizzy (looks,appearance are important but what you say gets it) but i add that its the way you carry yourself and how you say it gets them.

 

All that other stuff factors AFTER you've passed the looks / appearance filter.

 

Having CONFIDENCE is the number one trait a man needs when he's cold approaching a woman. I wouldn't give a fuck if the nigga looked like Denzel with a fitness model physique, if he's nervous, stuttering and fumbling words he's not catching her.

 

true to a point.
if two guys look like denzie but one has the lenny kravitz swagga and the other has the urkel swagga.. (same clothes)
the lenny swagga (carry himself) will win.

urkel swagga versus a guy big as fat albert but has the lenny kravitz swagga ... will edge out if he is dressed fly much betta than the other guy.

both guys in both scenerios can say the exact same thing too....