Physique vs mouthpiece: What gets the ladies?

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I don't get into the details of my personal life, so I encourage all the men to take notes from bugleroller. He's winning and you might learn something.

 

lol....

 

thats what "trading macking notes" thread is for but you know these dudes know everything but then contradictory shit to guys who are somewhat to very successful macks would say.

 

Honestly it depends on the women. But there have been times a girl chose me over the gym rat who definitely focused too much in the Gym. Then again you can also work out a lot, and look terrible. I know my personality has at times out shined guys who looked better, than me, and times where I was outshined by someone else's looks. Although I"m not child enough to say my looks didn't matter or play a role.

Also I know that I am way more than a mouth piece. Some girls like me, and some don't. I have the social grace to easily recognize that in 3 seconds. Also I concur that buying someone else drinks is a waste of money, and makes you look stupid.

Anyone who says looks doesn't matter or plays no part is lying. People are very much too immature to accept that their partner might not have chosen them if they looked different. Also disabled people in many ways are unfortunately fucked. Our society has also taken an immature view on female sexuality. Which sadly makes women cope with this view by saying very stupid things.

Women should not need to bullshit that "We clicked real well." or "We felt a strong connection." or "He is this, and this." Mentioning every quality except the physical. When probably looks were more often than not the main reason. I would say most people are superficial, and choose based on looks with personality also being a factor.

There definitely needs to be physical chemistry. Anyone selling the philosophy just personality/mouthpiece myth would not be with someone they had no attraction to unless there was a cash payment involved. Sure I"ll take the semi cute girl who can have a conversation over the brainless model, but that morbidly obese girl is not going to attract my interest no matter how sweet her personality is.

I know women, and men are going to offer me their doubts, and goodlove is going to do his "Charm, and mack bullshit philosophy. I have never been one to care what people think of me so I have no problem being the Johnny rain cloud in the name of exposing reality, and the ugly side of life.


I also know that no women, and no man is going to give a person who suffered facial third degree burns or disfigured by an acid attack a chance when he/she walks up to them. They could be the nicest, most confident, pleasant, and most faithful person in the world, but their face is messed up, and you don't want to kiss it. Their former friends, and family all wear fake smiles trying to make the person feel good when they know everyone on the streets has a reaction of revulsion, sympathy, or just fear, and dread. Children look at them on the street, and start crying or look afraid. People are going to act odd, and weird around them with a facial expression indicating that they are an "other", and not a human. No amount of "mack" "game" or romance, is going to change that.

 

as i and others have said "looks gets the attention.... your convo gets them home."

just as in baseball you will not always get on base,you will strike out and you will hit a homerun. no matter what, you always have to tighten up your game ....derrick jeter is the best and he still practice to sharpen his game.

not every woman is gonna dig you so keep it moving r
i agree i never buy a woman a drink i just met...thats wea

 

winner winner chicken dinner. Finally someone gets it

 

No no no. Clearly those of us who think personality plays a big role in attraction have also said you could be the ugliest fucker in the city and still get as much play as Mr Fit n Pretty. If we value personality we must also think that looks "don't matter" in the least. Please. :roll:

If you're 4 FT tall and 300lbs, yea you're gonna have trouble getting women. If you're decent looking with a decent personality, meeting quality people is like shooting fish in a barrel. Trust me, I see it all damn day.

 

This must be rocket science!!!

 

You and me baby...we could show em how it's done lmao

 

I just don't understand. It's not that fucking hard to find a damn woman. Unless they're looking for that FL diamond type chic.

 

It is all about what is attractive to the eye more than anything because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The physical attraction comes second. It is a selection process that we all go through. Ignoring what is attractive to the eye is a challenge. We cannot simply choose a person from thin air.

 

No, it's not. And it's not about settling either. There are quality men and women all over.

 

Enough said.

 

The full of shit twins. Take a bow guys lol
Hold on maybe we all have different ideas on what average is even though I'm constantly hearing women stand on a pulpit about how they don't want average. Even the most homeliest of women want an in shape well earning man to love them.
There millions of people with good personalities struggling like crazy out there to find someone to date. Do they ALL lack confidence or can we agree that confidence don't mean shit if you don't have looks to back them up.

 

Listen Linda,,,,, maybe you need to personally check "yourself" on this problem "you" have. Maybe it's your personality, your haircut, your shoe size, ect. Nobody wants a monster face person, I know that, but I'm sure you know some dudes like that who pull. You're blowing smoke up the forums ass homie, real talk.

 

A good personality is part of the equation, not the entire equation. That's your problem, you're making it seem like people are saying ALL a person needs is a sweet disposition. I will speak from a woman's perspective since that's what I know...if she takes care of herself (physically, financially, emotionally), with a good personality and is confident in what she brings to the table...she won't have trouble finding a quality man. The women I know who have trouble lack one of those things...either they don't take care of themselves, they're drama ridden or they're just a downright bitch. Hmmm...shocking that they're single lol.

If a man lacks any of those same things, then no...I probably wouldn't be interested in him. I don't need him to have a six figure salary...I need him to respect himself enough to take care of his health, his finances, handle his drama without bringing me into it and treat me kindly. That with a sense of humor...he's golden. Look at that...no mention of height, or a 6 pack, or a 10 inch dick. We're really not all as shallow as you claim.

 

I met an super cool dude last night, the type of dude who had the natural aura of being "he man"who knew everyone. He average at best facially, about 6'2" 370lbs. He showed me the chicks he be be fucking or used to fuck who were all 9/10's at minimal and had stories galore which had me :smt107

Even with his effortless charismatic pimpish personality, dude was very upfront saying he tricks on chicks and if it wasn't for him paying these broads bills, they wouldn't really fuck with him like that.

 

I have no problems Sally wipe the sand out of your vagina. I personally have no problem getting women but I recognize what I have going for myself and personality isn't what's getting and keeping these chicks around, at least not the only thing anyway. You and Raider keep pushing it like it ain't that hard just because it's easy for you. I see a lot of great human beings struggling and its not a lack of confidence. These women aren't swooning over a dude who's an assistant manager at McDonald's dudes ain't going crazy for a Monique look alike. Its the sad reality of life