Sexual Frustration and Violence

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by satyr, May 24, 2014.

  1. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Negro you're old enough to my dad and you're really talking about "game". People aren't toys and enough with the 70s slang dolomite "fix your mouth piece"
    I don't know when the last time you've dated was but a "mouth piece" is far from cutting it these days. Your looks and your money matter A LOT no use in pretending it doesn't. Women will kick that own mothers out the way for a Tyson Beckford with a medical degree instead of a dude who looks like Rerun with an amazing "mouthpiece"
    But I digress what I am saying that how we treat each other matters ALoT not all but A LOT of women are very rude and dismissive to men they aren't into, like I said emotional scars are real even if you can't see them. How about we just be good to each other no game required.
     
  2. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I understand why he feels frustrated, but it's so narcissistic to assume that he should be paid attention to at all. We are not 'entitled' to a woman's affections, no matter how much we might want them. And yes, women will and are free to be, attracted to whoever floats their boat, whether we like it or not. Douchebag or not. We humans are hardwired for some of this foolishness because we're just less hairy apes, unfortunately. We need to both better identify and treat mental disorders and sensitize our culture to how we treat each other.
     
    Last edited: May 31, 2014
  3. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    come on please don't be part of the insane double standard. We will never ever tell women that they are being narcissistic when they are upset about not finding love or if they find men who have different expectations from a situation than they do. We support their feelings and emotions and the right to feel hurt so don't act is if men who are hurt by rejection are somehow narcissistic and entitled that is unfair.
    We don't teach young men how to deal with their emotions we instead mock them snd tell them to bury because that's what "real" men do then we're someone surprised when it morphs them to uncaring cold assholes.
    Like I said just because some scars aren't visible doesn't mean they don't exist.
    You also speak from a position of privilege fam you're good looking tall educated and interesting. I'm sure you've never experienced rejection to the extent many of your "lesser" counterparts.
     
  4. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    your head is tuffer than a 2 dollar steak.

    again for the millionth time looks and money get you the attention.....if your mouth piece (knowing what to say ,when to say it and how to say it) is not together then no woman for you.

    game = the mouth piece, self confidence, dressed properly and how you treat them.

    damn if i have to spell it say so...if you dont get it.

    fools always get mad at what they dont know.

    life is not fucking fair....if your ass look like denzel you will still have to get your game tight.

    nobody owes you a mofo thing. better realize that.
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    fools disrespecting the game and or dont know the game pays heavily.

    look at steve mcnair. he disrepected the game and he paid heavily.

    you young-uns gonna get your butts exposed.
    yall have that bitch mentality...like women owe you.

    if yall cant get the number yall will cuss em out-bitch mentality.

    gotta lie about what type of relationship you want-bitch mentality.

    if i spend money on you we suppose to fuck._ bitch mentality
     
  6. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    dude wtf are you talking bout. 1) when i started , i must have in 1 month hollered at 100 women and may have gotten 5. and didnt get ass from any.
    ran into a sister told me some good shit along with other bros and soon i got better. do i still get turned down .....hell yeah. alot. is it frustrating yeah. it just means i got to tighten up.
    u win some you lose some...
     
  7. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    now you are contradicting yourself. i said men need to stop blaming women and men need to get together and talk bout the game and you got mad.
    damn....read with logic and not emotions.
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    What game? What on earth are you talking about goodlove? You gonna start giving me notes young blood?
     
  9. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    boy you are not as bright as you think you are.

    i stated for the longest over and over ....bros need to get together and talk on the game. i stated over and over....i dont know everything.
    however i have a lot experience success and failures...
    you know what? never mind. you are hard headed.
     
  10. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    I say it to women all the time. I point out when they're being self-absorbed and needy and manipulative and I do not buy into the "feminine wiles" or use of guile that women are often encouraged to use. I also always work with my son on expressing his feelings, precisely to avoid all that maladjusted rage that we are all susceptible to. And as for the position of privilege TDK, I routinely get left by my girlfriends for more exciting dudes. It happens all the time. In fact, the last woman I was dating in Miami from Hungary left me for a personal trainer. LOL
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Seriously? A personal trainer? Can they get anymore cliche. Please tell me this is a woman in her 20s at least.
     
  12. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Nope. 37, 5'11" and very hot. I always knew I was punching above my weight class with her, though. Lol. This guy had some serious biceps though, so I can't complain.
     
  13. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    A 37 year old woman doing that shit really? Lol just when you think they're at an age when that bs doesn't happen anymore.
    Dude I'm gonna tell you something they all probably hate to hear, you can never punch above your weight class because by default of being a man in this country you bring far more to the table. Sexist statement? Yes, but it doesn't make it less true. You have to be interesting, intelligent, employed, and entertaining in order for you to sleep with her. She only has to be attractive, so by that alone you bring far more to the table.
     
  14. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    That is by no means the rule. Besides, I'm in law school, so it's not like I'm partner making $250K. You would be surprised how being cool or good-looking can trump all that other stuff, which is largely an abstraction.
     
  15. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I think that's why things didn't work with my last gf. She's just way cooler and likable than I am. It was a little intimidating, probably the main reason I ended it. I need a huge awkward nerd like myself to be happy lol.

    Btw move to NY 250k is second/third year associate money out here. Partners do mid six figures to seven figures minimum fam.
     
  16. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Yeah, but everyone can't get those slots. I have a friend who's studying for the NY bar and graduated from Drake with her J.D. and she was babysitting to make ends meet until finally getting a spot at a major non-profit out there.

    As for getting a nerd girlfriend, I'm with you. No more hot mamas for me, lol.
     
  17. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    My mate must be that for her to sleep with me. Lol
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Negro please, if she's cute enough she sure as hell doesn't have to be all that to sleep with. To keep around maybe lol.
     
  19. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Nerds girls can be hot mamas. Lol
     
  20. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Very true, you have to go to a top tier like Fordham, NYU, or Columbia.
    Going to Cuny or Suny Law ain't gonna cut it.
    Hot mamas are great to hook up with in theory but generally I find the hotter the girl the wacker the sex. Maybe they think they're too pretty to have to try lol.
    My favorite women lately are the ones who use to be fat, soooo eager to please. Ladies I'm sorry if its offensive, just true in my life.
     

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