a good lie? is there such a thing?

should you lie to your mate ?

i asked because i saw an article about 7 lies women tell men.
example of one of the lies was "honey, your dick is the biggest i ever experienced"
a good lie?

guys what is the good lie you tell your woman?

women what good lie you tell your man?

 

i think lies are bringing problems, so i dont believe in lies. sometimes i prefer to say nothing in order not to hurt someone.
i want honesty in my relationship because it s the base for all trust, and IMO a relationship dont functions without trust.
so no, there is no good lies for me.

 

I agree with Gemini.
Lies generally -regardless how big or small they may be - are not a good thing, including the one listed as an example of what women lie to about to their man.
Most times lies come out,and then the person has to deal with what you really think and with the fact that you lied to them,which can destroy a relationship.
Nobody is perfect. Personally compliment when it is deserved in my opinion.
Otherwise may carefully express constructive criticism along with suggestions for improvement or encouraging words.
When I make a mistake,will own up to it as well.

 

No lie is a good lie.

A lie, no matter how insignificant or small it seems, is still a lie.

If you will lie about something seemingly small, then who's to say what else you will lie about?

 

oh come on...yall are killing me...lol. lol lol

ok you guys seriously dont think there is no such thing as a good lie?

 

A lie is a lie,no matter how ''good'' the liar's intention might be.I don't see why I wouldn't discuss a problem I might have or something that bothers me with him and prefer to lie instead;that wouldn't solve anything anyway

 

and there you have it.

 

Lying is a good thing if you went to law school. No you should not lie to your mate.

 

Hey...some of the folks on here resemble that remark.

 

No offense, just saying that lying could be an asset to your career, or maybe even expected of you. What is your take?

 

As it was said in the film Gladiator by Lucilla to Emperor Marcus Aurellius, "This is a pleasant fiction."

There is no such thing as a "good" lie. It suggests a motive. The objective of which may not be ethical.

 

Lying is only good if you are doing it too spare someone's feelings...some of my friends would rather hear what they want to hear rather than the truth

 

so you ladies are saying you will always tell your man the truth?

also would you want your man to always tell you the truth?

 

yes & yes

Too grown for drama and lies.

 

I am pretty honest and in return I appreciate honesty. If he was tiny, I wouldn't gush and say the opposite. And if I ask if I look fat, I want im to be honest.

 

You should never lie to your partner, friends or family.

 

so if your man and u finished sexing and asked "if the sex was good...(you didnt enjoyed it)?"
would you lie if you didnt enjoy it?

 

I think I would say that I enjoyed it because I'm sure that some of it was enjoyable and suggest that we did some things to spice it up next time. Or tell him if there was something I disliked.

 

still not going to lie.

Communication is key. If there was something he did that I didn't like, I would tell him. Something I loved or wanted him to do differently, have to find a way to talk about it.

 

and if he said you look fat in a dress...would you get mad?