Men as a Problem

In light of George Clooney's recent engagement, I've been thinking about how some men should be viewed in terms of a benign problem that needs to be solved rather someone you throw pussy at.

Most men will gladly catch even well-worn pussy and wife it up. There is a minority of men, however, who present a problem for women in terms of securing a long term commitment from.

After awhile one piece of ass blurs with all the others and there is no meaningful history to be told. George went through long line of models, actresses and other hot pieces of ass before deciding to put a ring on an Oxford-educated lawyer.

A woman like that knew that she had to deal with him differently than his past girlfriends who relied on their looks and sex appeal. She was smart enough to solve the problem.

 

im sorry but i missed the point .
are kind of asking how the average looking woman (when compared to the models he dated.) pulled clooney.

 

I can dig this concept. This happens when a woman undervalues herself. Just like when a man throws money at a woman or when a troubleshooter throws parts at a system instead of understanding how it really works. Know your own value and take the time to really understand who or what you are dealing with, in order to proceed properly.

 

i can see that if that is what she is saying. lets go with that for convo sake.
true the chick clooney got with is not as good looking as the others but her resume makes her a 10. she is bring something to the table. a concept a lot of bros/dudes dont get. she can be chunky but funky and if she has a good resume and a team player-......wife her up.

 

Agreed.

 

From the pictures that I have seen of her (I just googled her), Clooney's fiancee is as hot a piece of ass as many of the past women he has been with/linked to, and even better in some cases. She just comes with an educational pedigree instead of a celebrity one.

 

She understood that Clooney would not be amazed by pussy alone.
If you were trying to fix a system that I was working on. Would you throw the same parts at it as I did if I failed? By having a better understanding of him or men, and knowing her own worth; she offered him what the other women did not. That solved the problem. That was my take.

 

compared to the others she is last or close to it. she is hot tho....not saying she isnt. she has the whole package.

 

She likely did understand his type better, so she was able to reel him in that way.

But, unlike most of the other girls he dated, she had a life of her own, a damn good career, and she's a humanitarian. I would bet dollars to donuts that it's because she had more substance and brains and likely played hard to get, more than other woman he encountered, that got him hooked.

She does seem to be an ideal match for him, going forward.

 

i give an example of a chuny but funky......the woman on CNN....micheala pereira. she is sexy and pretty. she is chunky but funky. i would tapp 100lbs off of her.
shes smart and funny and not sloppy big. yall would just have to talk...i would not care.

 

I try to understand what women go thru.

Wonder how many of us men could resist going to bed with Kate on the first night. Playing hard to get must really suck sometimes.

 

George Clooney's situation is not unique. I recall the stories about actor Warren Beatty. Like George Clooney, he had dated and bedded many beautiful women until he met his co-star actress Annette Benning on the set of Bugsy. They fell in love and they were married and are still together. Everyone who was very interested, wanted to know how this woman married a man who was a known bachelor, hedonist and lady's man. I thought, after seeing Benning's performance as Virginia Hill, that she was very sexy in her own way and that she had the chutzpah to make Beatty look at her closely. I do not see George Clooney's fiancée as a "piece of ass who threw it his way." I think Clooney had discovered a woman that he found not only attractive and sensual, but very smart and creative. She is a woman who probably understands him and his life in show business. What man wouldn't want a woman like that? I am sure that they understand each other and their feelings for each other are genuine. They wouldn't be engaged if they didn't like each other.

 

I am not so sure about this. I think women generally know what they bring to the table and if it's enough to maintain the interest of an above average guy. Undervaluing oneself suggests that Stacy Kiebler (staying with the Clooney example) has a trove of intellectual talent that she likes to keep under wraps. I seriously doubt it but the ass is nice--for now.

Neither I nor do I think anyone else said that. ???

 

lol you really think hard to get works?
Here's a secret most dudes won't reveal a lot of times the way a woman gets us has way less to do about them and more to do about us. For a lot of guys they feel like it's time to settle down and she just happened to be the one who was sitting in the last chair when the music stopped.

 

I would not expect her to be intellectual either, however; the small things that make a person unique could actually be a quality to someone else. No matter how simple. If she gave up that pussy too soon, I am sure it went unnoticed.

 

What's too soon for a dude like Clooney? Panties stuffed in his mouth before he can get out hello? lol

 

There is truth to that, but do you think that was the case with Clooney? I doubt it.

 

idk, but if I typically smash within the first two days then they should at least try to make him wait 10 min. lol

 

Could be, he's human he may have wanted a genuine connection and possibly a family and she so happened to be around when he felt that way. There's no way of us really knowing but I've seen it with so many guys especially at our age when the appeal of going out and meeting women isn't as appealing as having a family.

 

lol real talk. Damn you player you, you only wait two days? Last girl I was with made me wait more than a month, longest time since hs lol