Fathers-you walk past your daughters room and see this..what do you say to her?

Your daughter is in her room with her two friends and their playing their music..You walk past her room to go to the bathroom and see this...

what would you say to her and would you say it it then and there or wait till later?


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3 girls (one holding the camera) in their bedroom just "goofing around" then suddenly at the 1:00 mark some overt sexual shit jumps off

but its all just innocent goofing around right???

This is why I have a hard time believing every female isn't a LITTLE bit bisexual

 

All they are doing is goofing around and dancing. Girls these days are a bit more sexual than they were back when I was this age, but I don't see anything overly sexual to be concerned about. Now, if they were taking off their clothes and kissing each other...then I might say something.

But again, you have so much emphasis placed on porn and lesbianism or just sex in general almost everywhere you look, how do we really expect them to think about sexual situations differently?

 

Honestly someone needs to give her a talk about being private, and not acting like idiots on youtube.

 

Yup

 

definitely!

 

Agreed!

 

It seems I will be the voice of dissent here, first my daughter would already understand that such overt sexual behavior would not be OK, but if she ever did do what the girls in the video were doing and I saw, the music would be immediately shut off, friends sent home immediately, and a LOOONG talk about our morals and values would commence immediately followed by consequences. Parents of the other girls would be called and informed as to exactly why they were sent home as well.

I agree with others that have stated that there are too many hyper sexual images and pressures for kids growing up these days. The best defense against that is constant two-way communication about family morals and values and channeling their energy and attention into more positive outlets and activities. In this day and age, more than ever, it is very important for growing teen girls to see and value themselves for much, much more than just their sexuality and looks.

 

I'm openly bi and I've danced this before, with my best friend who is also bi and my straight female friends. It's just harmless goofing off/fun, but we were never stupid enough to film it and put it on Youtube.

 

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Everybody raised in the 70s 80s and early 90s knows that's what their mom or dad would have did to that ass.

 

I've seen this one ... sup with teens today??

 

With this one, this tried to ride off the success of the Crank Dat Dance, but it became the butt of all jokes.

 

This.

Followed by this:

 

Yep, I've done this as well, when I was a bit younger lol. That's just how we used to dance together.

 

I wouldn't tell the friends to leave, but I'd sure as hell remove to camera and tell those girls they're going to get the reputation of "school sluts" if they keep it up. While having the "slut" reputation from peers isn't earth-shattering, when adults see them that way, it has an impact on scholarships, internships, and their future. I don't care if I have a daughter who views sexuality different than me, but that little bitch is going to be well-educated, and I won't let youth and inexperience ruin her opportunities. Same goes for a son.