How do you want to be remembered?

With love and a smile for the memories

 

thx glad to be back. lub-lub you guys

 

i lost too many ppl over the years. many that were dear to me and that i didnt want to see go.
i want to be remembered the way i remember them. if thinking about me makes them smile and think *oh god i truly miss her* i ve done right.

 

I hope I'll be remembered for being a good friend and loving people unconditionally. I hope a memory of me will make someone smile.

 

Now this is some good news! Glad you're up and at 'em, goodlove. Welcome back!

That's an awesome sentiment. Thumbs up!

 

i want my daughter to say..."my dad taught me some wise stuff to live by, he was overprotective and now that im married with kids....i get it. after college he was my friend and advisor"

i want her to tell stories ~bout how i was there for her with wise statements like "success is one step after a series of setbacks. dont give up!"
"Luck is Laboring Under Correct Knowledge."
Or
"Luck is preperation meeting oportunity."
and last
"no hard work.....no achievement"

 

My mom always compares my sister Shawna and I in two ways:

1. Nicole would give up everything and live in a straw hut somewhere... and Shawna will be the one selling Nicole straw at twice the price.

2. Give Nicole a million dollars and she'll turn it into two million. Give Shawna a million dollars, and she'll turn it into zero.



So with those comparisons in mind, I'd want to be remembered for being optimistic and easy to please. I really would be the one happy living in a straw hut, because I'd be surrounded by the right people, and have what I need.

I'd want to be remembered for being soft-spoken and fair, trying to always see both sides to a story before coming to a conclusion... and for being an advocate for deaf rights/ issues, even if it meant standing alone.

No kids yet, so how they remember me doesn't matter