Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

Hahaha did you seriously just negro please us? :smt043 Dude I adore the hell out of you but with your thoughts on dating I truly wonder how you manage to get the gorgeous chicks you get. You must have that confidence that you swear doesn't make a difference.

 

^^ This!!

 

I've got a large penis a good job and a masters degree. That about sums it up lol.
I'm not saying confidence don't help but you're leaving out other key factors. A guy working the drive thru has next to no chance with yall no matter how confident he is.

 

*puts on my TDK hat* And how long have you been a woman kid?

Seriously tho...you not only act like you know what women want but you flat out refuse to believe what real women tell you we find attractive. Craziness. If dude is working the drive thru because he's trying to make ends meet while in school to better himself and his future, he'd absolutely get my time and attention. If he's a lazy fucker who has no goals and is comfortable being a passenger in life, then no...he won't get more than a hello out of me. It truly is about more than what he can offer me. Any woman worth having would look for things other than money and a big dick. Just sayin.

 

God I wish I could rep you right now!!! Very well said.

 

Fam, you and it agree on a lot politically, but when it comes to views on dating, it becomes a whole other conversation. ...lol

I've said before, I'll say it again; game trumps all (with some exceptions). The two dudes in my click who got the least play and got played the most often were doctors (one was a dentist). Both good guys, nice looking, great attitudes. Really everything most women would want in a man. Except one major flaw; no game. The cat that got the most play couldn't hold down a job to save his life. But, he knew how to talk to women. And, he got nothing but straight up stunners with educations and good jobs.

Basing one's appeal to women on what he has or has accomplished is a quick way to get cheated on or fucked over. Why? Because there is always someone that has more or is more accomplished than you. But, if you can get to her heart by opening her mind and touching her spirit, then, in her mind at least, there will be no one greater than you because there is no one like you.

However corny that sounds, it is true non the less.

That, and be able to sling good "D." Never underestimate the power of the "D." :smt074

 

Maybe it's where I live because here in.NY dudes with "game" are a dime a dozen not to mention women here are social climbers and won't mess with a dude who can't afford an $80 dinner from time to time.
And to be fair when most of you women talk about new guys you meet you always talk about physical characteristics and/or the occupation of the guy. Never do I hear about how well you click or hos at ease he makes you feel. So like I said game is a small fraction of what gets a woman.
And Raider one more time I can speak on it because I've literally had decades of practice getting women, you can only speak for yourself. I not only have my experience but the experience of other men. You're the prey we're the hunters. If I'm hunting deer who do I ask how to get one another hunter or a deer?

 

That's shit right there! I said my ex and I clicked. Never did I say his giant penis was the reason I dated him.

 

Never said you did lol. Funny how you wrnt right to dick size

 

You can remark on sexual anatomy or chemistry without that being the only thing you care about, lol. Tell the truth: you never admired the boobs of someone you truly liked? I know I have.

 

Yeah because men down front lol

 

Lol

 

But that is part of having game, isn't it? If you focused on building yourself, then everything else follows (i.e. it's not about faking confidence, it is about confidence that comes from being an evolved human being). Heck, if you are 16 and working at drive thru i am sure you can have enough game to impress the sophomores.

 

True but just throwing out "be confident" is lazy advice. You have to be specific with people otherwise most times they won't succeed. If confidence came so easy you'd rarely hear dudes complain about not getting women.

 

Imo no matter how specific the advice, you cant really train someone to have confidence in themselves. Honestly I think men and women lose their confidence because they over think things. Men get turned down a few times and then all of the sudden in their eyes women "only want men who are ripped with fat wallets". Ladies run into a few dickwads and all of the sudden men "only want chicks who'll spread their legs on the first date". With that negative nelly attitude, its no wonder some people have trouble meeting quality mates. People can be so self destructive sometimes. There are gorgeous, intelligent men and women everywhere...if one isn't feeling you, move the fuck onto the next!

Im not trying to argue with you...we can agree to disagree about what women want. I'll say it again though...confidence is key. As a woman, its that simple to me.

 

How specific can you be with someone about what will make that person be complete as a person? Only you know what gives you meaning in life. Nobody said it was easy; we've all gone through stuff that forges us.

 

Yet only specific men with "confidence" approach you huh. When you and other women can be honest and say physical attributes plus certain occupations plus confidence turn you then we can have an honest conversation.

 

I tell dudes cultivate your professions and interests before seeking a woman. The better you are at your job and other interests the more confident you are with women. Also keep in mind if she's willing to talk to you you're better than her and that's ok. If women truly wanted someone equal to them they'd be dating other women. That's why they want a man who taller stronger faster smarter and financially more stable than themselves.

 

That's just plain silly. How does "equal" mean dating other women? We tend to assess women by similar criteria too.."clingy".."needy"..."uneducated"..."fat"...etc. Ultimately aren't all of these just indicators of a person not living up to their full potential? (there are plenty of men & women who are goldiggers and who look for the wrong things, but that's a whole other discussion).

 

Being physically fit encourages ones confidence, so they go hand in hand IMO. Certain occupations (or the earning potential of ones occupation) has no bearing on my interest in someone. That assumption is annoying. I learned the other day that I make more than double what my guy makes, and you know how I learned that? Because HE brought it up. I'll tell you the same thing I told him...I don't give a flying fuck what my partner earns as long as he loves what he does and he can support himself each month. I've never been the type to look for a man to take care of me. I seriously question what kind of women you're accustomed to, to have developed your way of thinking with regard to women/dating.