Black Men and the Pregnancy Game

I manage property at a relatively upscale community and two of the tenants are women of foreign descent (both European) who have children by black men. One of them doesn't seem to have a job and spends most of her days by the pool. The other tenant is new and only seems to work sporadically. This is not uncommon as many tenants are people who never amounted to shit and from wealthy families who are willing to pay to have them live elsewhere.

The fact that these women don't have steady employment but can pay rent on an expensive apartment and gained U.S. citizenship after getting knocked up makes me wonder what the quality of relationships with the missing fathers are/were? These are not brothers from the hood but upper class black men who either had a failed relationship with these women or short term fling that led to longterm consequences. Did these guys even want children with these women? Out of professional consideration, I never ask.

The women are not average looking so it would be easy for them to convince some guy who wasn't thinking straight to plant his seed in the wrong garden.

I think of Blake Griffin, Dwayne Wade, Arian Foster and other well-to-do brothers who inexplicably hooked up with professional babymakers. Brynn Cameron, for example, will be cashing checks from the NFL and NBA for at least the next twenty years. I can't even criticize her though because men of high (and even low) prominence should know better.

 

Well in that case should women who marry these dudes and get cheated on know better as well?

 

Non sequiter, re-read and respond.

 

How do you know they have citizenship? Could they be here on visa? They can't just get citizenship like that unless they were married for a while, or had something educational wise that would give them that. Visa and citizenship is very hard to come by.

 

Your argument is if you're smart enough to realize who you're dating whatever befalls you is your fault right?

 

I've been saying this for years. Men SHOULD know better. There's really no excuse for all of the babies happening by professional athletes.

Are they really that easily manipulated? And you'd think that the newer ones should REALLY know better because they've had example after example after example of ones before them that apparently didn't.

And why are these men getting it on with strange women and not wrapping it up? That's scary right there, considering the amount of women they must bang.

 

So are women dumb for marrying these dudes expecting them to be faithful?

 

*agrees*

 

We all know many of the ladies who are with professional athletes are with them for their money and fame.Its these women who throw themselves at these athletes leaving these guys with little or no choice.

 

How do you know there's an expectation of faithfulness? You don't know what's in their pre-nups and whatnot.

And any woman who marries these athletes should know better.

*Is that better, TDK? Women are being bashed now, too. I know how important that is to you, making sure women get their due, too.*

One could argue that non-famous men do the same with famous women, so what's your point? When one is a celebrity and one isn't, chances are greater than 50% that it's not about love. But that's not ALWAYS the case.

And to your last point, you ALWAYS have a choice. It's how you act in these types of situations that show people your true character.

 

I agree with u that non famous men do the same with famous women.So you see most of these relationship is really not based on love so any party shouldnt be complaining about this and that when such relationship hit the rocks.

 

These bum ass dudes got all the choice in the world and continue to choose to nut up in these bum ass females. I just feel sorry for the kids.

 

thank you.. *sarcasm on* we dont have drugstores, we dont have condoms, we dont have a choice *sarcasm off*

it takes two to tango...

 

If most men would stop thinking with their dicks most bullshit wont happen. You should have a modicum of common sense to know as an athlete or a successful man in any endeavour, a lot of women will come at you with ulterior motives so as best as possible, strap up and do your thing. How hard is that? No woman no matter how hot she is is worth having unprotected sex with unless you are ready to pay child support for 18 years

 

Yes thank you. Its about time, if men gotta suck it up and deal with their dumb ass choices so should women. It's called EQUALITY.:smt006:smt006:smt006

 

This x's 1000. In this day and age, there is no reason for any man to get a female pregnant if does not want to. But, that's the " thinking" of the modern male.

Believe anything a woman tells you. "I'm on the pill." "I don't want kids. So, don't worry about it. I'd get rid of it if I got pregnant." And my all time favorite, "I can't get pregnant." These dudes deserve all the headache and wallet strain they get for being so stupid. But, in all do fairness, if they didn't have any male role models growing up who could teach them how to "conduct" themselves around women, then how can we expect much more from them.

If the law said a man must sign off on having a child at the time of birth, or before, otherwise he is not financially responsible for that child (unless you the couple is married) you'd see a whole lot less of this behavior. Also, make DNA tests mandatory at the time of birth. Chicks would still be giving it up. They love sex, too. But, they'd be making damn sure they didn't get pregnant unless they were married or really knew what kind of man they were dealing with.

They could call it the Dumb Nigga' Protection Act.

Problem solved.

 

What about women who marry professional athletes and then cry when they get cheated on? How many times does it have to happen before you're smart enough to expect it.

 

ok let me get that straight here.

i feel you guys on getting pissed on women hooking y´all up with kids you dont want.
it s not better then a guy running around telling a woman *hey i had a vasectomy there s nothing you have to worry about* and it turns out he didnt.
it s not better then taking the risk having sex carefree without knowing each other better taking the risk of transferring sexual deseases and spreading them.

BUT- not all women lie, not all women have the intention to see a man in problems.

and not all men are dogs.

stay fair.

 

This.

 

A single mother could teach him how not to treat women better than a man could teach him how to treat women. And there really is no excuse, not even the absence of a male role model, for a man not to know that unprotected sex can result in an unwanted pregnancy or disease or both. This is 2014. That information is everywhere.