Going White

my man is exactly the same as me in the respect of he couldn't care less about what colour the person is, as long as they are a good person!
If we weren't together any more, he would just as happily be with a bw than another ww.

 

WW are perfectly capable of drama, I speak from experience. For me its not even about being attracted to WW, I have a strong attraction to brunettes as I'm sure I have already mentioned. Blondes for the most part don't do it for me but there are always exceptions. BUT if the woman of my dreams turns out to be Japanese, Black, Indian, Redhead, Ozzie, Latina or any other type of lady so be it and ill be more than happy.

 

Totally makes sense (except the blonde part) lol.

 

Because some black dudes are flat out corny with no people skills. Since a lot of the guys were raised by women and had no manly figure in they life, they act just like women these days engaging into the supposed drama.

Real talk, I've experienced more drama in my life by the hands of white women then black women and I've been with each pretty much evenly. Growing up I might of agreed with these guys... all white women seemed like these super cool, laid back, happy, down to earth, beautiful, outgoing beings where black women were nothing but these attitude having, neck rolling, flower seed cracking drama queens...

Now days the script done flipped. All I encounter is these cool ass black women childless women with a lot going for themselves who are straight n direct... white women around my age all seem to be into playing games and giving me grief for the dumbest shit for example my ex flipping out because I noticed her gray hair n said it was cute.



Probably due to my location, white women here are quite aware of the black man's thirst for them and they exploit it to their full advantage here. I see so many black dudes getting played by white women now a days on an regular basis but they continue to pedestalize them as if they could do no wrong....

Like this one white chick I used have fun with lol... hardcore Steeler fan, everybody know I'm a Ravens fan. I remember telling her I would turn her into an Ravens fan but she didn't believe me. One night after pounding her fucking sorry pathetic ass Steelers in the dirty in Madden with my Ravens, shortly after I was pounding her pussy into the couch. I said tell me you love the Ravens! She said "I love the ravens, I love the ravens, I FUCKING LOVE THE RAVENS" *squirts all over the couch*

haha anyway sorry reliving some memories. We done, her phone blowing the fuck up. It's her supposed "ex bf", she showing me all the texts while laughing n shit. It reads "Where you at!? You better not be fucking that nigga! I know you fucking that nigga! Come pick me up right now"

The first time we spoke she ran that same sorry game I'm so used to hearing chicks use "I ain't talking to nobody right now, I ain't interested in no one, I really like you" bullshit. This motherfucker living at her house.

But let a black women politely decline a black man's advances, all sudden she's all types of bitches and hoes, worst fucking woman in the world, lame dudes are even ready to fight them over being declined.

I see it all the time in my work place. An old ex coworker of mine, she's an very beautiful busty 21 year old chocolate black female. Men of all races get at her but she does not mix business with pleasure and she's very serious about it. Men ask for her number and it's an flat out "No". So all these guys bitch and moan about how much of a stuck up bitch she is and try to evade at all costs. White women shoot them down, they take it as hard to get.... until their called into HR's office :smt043

The funny thing this chick chills in my office half my shift and we just strictly talk. Dudes are hella jealous and assume that we are fucking lol.

 

I'm a Denver Broncos fan...get it right! Geez

 

I need a nap after readin' all that sh*t.

 

You can get it anytime, anywhere! Madden, the couch, kitchen counter, floor... :smt066

From The AFC title game all the way to the Superbowl I thought of you the whoooooole time, I must admit I had some animosity towards you because I remember telling you that Peyton will choke eventually but the Peyton and the Bronco's was thrashing teams left n right... I was mad as fuck watching you parade your Bronco's around the forums while my Ravens didn't even make playoff's.

But watching that bloodbath the Seahawks administered to the Bronco's



WOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, I felt good as fuck! I was super swole you didn't answer my teasing texts that night.

 

LMAO! I wanted nothing to do with you or anyone else that night! I was blazed anyway...my baby had to literally scoop me up and take me home.

 

I guess it's hard for a guy like you who would never play games with women to see that kind of stuff. I understand. If only all the men out there were as honest and straight forward as you are......xoxoxo

 

well stated.

 

4north I agree, generally I've seen that young black girls play more relationship games than young white girls and older white women play more games than older black women.
But the games they play tend to be different, so maybe bm just prefer the games ww play?

 

What kind of ratchet ass women do you encounter fam? Damn.

 

Chloroform or carbon monoxide?

 

It's about time you learned how to post pics n shit. Welcome to 2014. :smt036

 

Couldn't have done it without you, Darlin'.

 

My work isn't pro bono, come out dem pockets or dat dress. :smt066

 

well thanks for such an insightful response :roll:

 

The problem with bw isn't the drama. Once upon a time it probably was, and you'd hear a lot of bm mention that. (and it was taboo to mention, even then)

The problem with ww isn't the drama.

Fact of the matter is, it is you who are responsible for who you get involved with. Whether it's a black woman who is into drama, a ww who is into drama, or a bm who cheats on you and leaves you and your kids.

BW don't recognize that fact, so over the generations they've become almost universally more sullen and small-minded toward bm in the u.s. than ww. I'm not talking about how they carry themselves when you're involved with them, I'm talking about those aspects of how they carry themselves that determine whether us bm are going to be more attracted to them or less attracted to them in the first place

A good vignette from my experience went like this: a bunch of young coworkers are sitting at a table having lunch. One black girl in the bunch. I say hello just casually and politely to everyone at the table, like anyone else would. Everyone else smiles and says hello, except of course, the sullen black girl who says nothing, stares forward, and iggs me cold, like it's just okay because it's just the nigger.

Nobody else would do that. A white girl these days wouldn't do that. I have a million experience with black women that are like that. Black woman act like haters waaay too readily. That's entrenched in black female culture.

a ww would regard herself as a racist or an asshole if she acted like that, so you see less of that among them. And the ones who are into bm -(like presumably bw are into bm :?- seem to make it known more readily

i.e. they seem to be warming to black men, while bw are arguably trending in the opposite direction.

Cultural trends happen. Years ago, ppl wore bell bottoms with the waists hiked up. Nowadays, the fashion is to wear stick legs with waists sagged low.

Cultural trends happen. One of the cultural trends that have occurred over the last few generations of bw is a "bm is the enemy" attitude. Roll your eyes and snarl, show him "he ain't shit". Even use the common "racism" against him.

It's probably generational, and maybe the teens and twenty-somethings have grown out of it, just like there are few bw walking around nowadays in colored contacts and blonde hair, though that trend cropped up in the past

I don't know about the younger generation, but I have plenty of experience with mine.

cultural trends happen. Some are even orchestrated or helped along by media images. Let's not deny that they happen.

Sometimes they're positive -- eg. ww are warming to us. Sometimes they're negative -- e.g. bm thinking it's cool to be pimps. Sometimes they're negative and taboo to say anything about -- e.g. bw casting bm as the enemy, right alongside with the rest of society

Cultural trends happen. They come and go, just like fashion trends.

mexicans today (enmity with blacks), aren't the mexicans of yesteryear (allies of blacks)

eastern europe of yesterday (croats and serbs intermarried) isn't the eastern europe of today (croats and serbs civil war)

white women of yesteryear aren't the ww of today

black women of yesteryear aren't the bw of today

diet changes, fashion changes, politics change, SOCIAL ATTITUDES change. Cultural trends happen.

Trends in black female culture are indeed affecting black men's love for other kinds of women.

That's taboo to say, but let's reverse it and see what people think.

Trends in black male culture are affecting the way black women look at white men..

I'll bet everyone "tightens up" and resents sentence one, but breathe easy and decompresses at sentence two

:roll:

Just because race is bullshit and doesn't determine who you are doesn't mean culture isn't real. culture does indeed have an effect on the (vast majority) of human beings who can barely think for themselves. Many peoples minds and attitudes are overwhelmingly a product of their culture.

Cultural trends happen. BF cultural trends are having an impact on black culture. One of the impacts, I'd wager, is the out-dating rate for both bm and bw.

WF cultural trends also have an effect on this. In many areas of the u.s., it's becoming less taboo among ww to be with a bm. Women do the choosing. WW are arguably "warming" to us.

Let's not simply write off all the stuff bm have been saying for the last 30 years about bw's "complicated" relations with bm, just because the "race equation" says that bm are always in the wrong, but all other ppl's doo-doo don't stink

Cultural trends happen. The are trends in bw culture that are very bad for bm/bw relations and probably are a catalyst for more bm/ww relations.

And just like ppl generalize all over the place, you have a few interesting, positive experiences with ww and begin to compare it to the bw hating you just because you showed up, and that cinches it for some, a la "once you go white"

 

Wow....that's quite a mouthful. I am no authority on bw. I have quite a few great female black friends whom I love dearly. It's the bm that have commented on the bw attitude. I will say that when Ive been out with a black man, Ive never encountered any problems EXCEPT from bw. I have experienced nasty looks from several bw. I came to expect it. I guess that has to do with me invading their territory? Not sure.