thigh high stockings ...just breathe...in...out...in...out...there are bound to be speed bumps in the road
I found it really hard, after being on my own for years to take someone else into consideration ( I still fail miserably at it now) I pretty much come and go as I like still, but have to bear in mind sometimes that when I'm off on a wonder, he is potentially at home wondering or worried that I'm not home yet. ( I also fail to take either one of my two mobile phones out with me most of the time) Probably not the same scenario as yours, but I do know how hard it is to involve that special someone in your life, if you are used to being a loner.
I hear you, babe. I have had to bite my tongue on a few occasions. I'm used to fending for and making all executive decisions for myself as well as others both in my personal as well as my professional life. However...given any relationship, you always have to practice respect for one another and compromise. I have been suffering from foot in mouth syndrome on a few occasions and landing myself in hot water. Never my intention, but really have to think about things before I say them given the inappropriateness of some of those comments. Between that and my sassy mouth that sometimes creates unnecessary drama. Ugh...sometimes it can be challenging. Hang in there babe :freehug: give yourself time to process your thoughts and try to be cooperative and optimistic.