30+ and i've never had a girlfriend--

women when u diss...be kind...its tuff just approaching

 

Don't you see? It is supposed to be a game. A challenge. If they, or the game was easy, women would lose respect for men. So, a man has to play the game if they want to win. The woman has the power in this area and she wants the man to show his power.

 

I'm a grown-up I don't think I should be playing any games. It's a waste of time

 

Agreed. Games are for children

 

The game is why I remained single. No drama. Thank God.

 

:smt119

 

I'm not saying that I haven't had many conversations with them, or went out to dinner, or gone dancing with them. I'm just saying I've never been in a steady relationship with one and I'm becoming increasingly opposed to the idea, if I'm totally honest.

 

Guys do get butt-hurt. But that's not really the problem. The problem is guys pretending that they don't get hurt or have feelings.

 

WHY? What do you see yourself doing if it is to never be in a steady relationship?

 

Just being a loner. Or maybe I'm still "waiting for the right one :smt017".

 

Speechless

 

"Waiting for the right one" is a long wait. I know this all too well.

 

Christopher Hitchens received a lot of criticism from women when he talked about why women aren't funny. You're right a lot of women just depend on their looks. Of course American women that I've encountered have pretty much been a mess dating wise. The best relationships I've had usually were foreign women.The American culture is a mess when it comes to women.

 

why is it always an american woman's fault when a man can't find a date and if a woman is trying to find a great guy then she must be doing something wrong as well

 

It's called making excuses for their own failings in the dating world.

 

Bingo lol. Some of these dudes are downright comical in the ways they try to rationalize why it's not them that's the problem If you have to go outside of a country as huge as America to find a suitable mate, it might be time to do a little internal audit. IJS

 

ding ding ding fellas we have a winner:smt031

 

You've been doing this forever around these parts.

 

You guys sound really pompous and dismissive

 

God forbid you mention that lol