you guys are some old motherfuckers to be still trying to figure women out You should know by now, it's not about what anyone else wants or thinks, it's about what you want. The only real question is "how do you get there" Let average girls want whatever they want, think whatever they think Do you want an average girl? Just define what you want and go for it :smt051
I wonder if some of the dudes on here want a woman or some girl they can control at the hands of their fingertips. :smt012
lol telling dudes i dont need to lie to get ass is ass-kissing ? dont get butt hurt when u get dissed is ass-kissing?
I have to admit I was curious to see your answer as I wondered too. Not in a negative way at all. Just curious as to what drew you here. I enjoy your posts very much, btw.
I just think people are too fixated on the idea of trying to have an ideal mate, when realistically, we're simply just too independent of ourselves to realize that relationships do require some level of sacrifice and working together, despite some differences. As for this topic at hand...I still don't buy into the whole average vs. hot vs. sexy vs. cute motif since it's all really subjective to the person. The standard of beauty has been ingrained in our psyche since birth and because we're exposed to different beauties, we want to find someone that is fundamentally....nonexistent. Physical, mental, and emotional connection...and there's literally no one in this world who truly fits all three. To make it work, one has to embrace and accept the imperfections of others to truly see the beauty in that person and in turn, within yourself.
Thanks. I've been meaning to post an introduction in the "Introduce Yourself" board. I will probably do so in the next day or two!
exactly. they just mad because no matter if they r a 5 or a 10.....they cant pull one. they can only lie and trick-off to get a woman
I'll admit, there were times a long time ago in which I acted begrudgingly over the idea of rejection. Nowadays, I just don't care much since I realized that there are other fish out there. I lack the sex appeal commonly associated with men, but I have my own sense of charm which attracts women, but only in a sense that they can confide to me as a brotherly type, which doesn't bother me at all. I just came to accept that position until proven otherwise. Even if I wind up being a single man for the rest of my life, I can find joy without the prospects of sharing my life with another, instead of wasting my energy thinking all women are stuck-up bitches.
u r a good dude...u just need not to give up and remember its -presnetation (how u carry urself and dress) -communication -decisiveness
I do all those things, but surely not to the magnitude where for a desired match. But I'm not one to look anyway.
I have mentioned this before. It is very difficult to find that sommeone special and it is very easy to lose that someone special. In my opinion, cute can go a long way. Buying into what is considered beautiful is a conscious choice. I strongly believe that one cannot take a person on faith alone because if they did, there will be less single people and more married in this world. In a perfect world, it is possible. I mentioned prison inmates. Prison inmates don't care about age, weight,race and looks. They simply want a person to communicate with someone on the outside because they are lonely. And they hope that person is there when they get out. Aren't we all in a prison of some sort now? Even if it is of our own making?