Average Girls Need To Stay In Their Lane

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Because you're a snarky little lass. I think his point in terms of the no make up thing is these same women are holding out and not getting the results they want.
What process of elimination does online dating give us?

 

Kinda see where he's going there. Social media has made every 6/10 inflate their value higher than it is actually worth and fucks up the dating game.

When some women reject me I LOL like really? But that's cool.

Guys are expected to approach more and take the lashes. Oh well.

 

Exactly, it gives me a good laugh though can't even front. These same winners will spend the majority of their twenties and thirties either bitter about not meeting the guy they "deserve" or constantly allowing themselves to be cum dumpsters until they are no longer considered desirable. The writing may come off a little bitter but his points are spot on.
And don't get me started on online dating. Everyone swears they come to the marketplace with the same amount of money in their pocket.

 

LOL yeah I hate online dating with a passion.

 

I met my last two girlfriends doing online dating and had an amazing experience with one and the other was bat shit crazy. I am dating a few girls right now (one is black which ironically is going the smoothest) and one was from online, one I reconnected with through friends, and one I met at Sams Club. Online dating is just another avenue to take but I am beginning to see I have a better chance with high caliber women when I meet them in the moment opposed to them being able to compare and contrast me amongst a wide array of other men.

 

a little bitter? come on now, boo....i've sucked lemons sweeter than that fucker

 

Bleh, average men need to stay in their own lane too.

 

ok very bitter but it's like any truth it's pretty self evident and accurate.

 

Ok did you read the article? Because dude is saying just that, his issue is the average and below average women over looking him and only focusing on above average men that they never get bringing their own bitterness to the social game.

 

So this article is basically attempting to make less attractive "easier" sexual targets (and only casual sex targets) for sexually frustrated, unattractive men. Got it.

 

I did, and in it he says "average guys aren't looking for 10s and 9s." But personally I see it theother way around.

 

Meaning?

 

Average guys shoot for the moon just as much as average women do. The difference is, average women will settle with the stars while average men will either give up or keep shooting.

From my own experiences, guys of all kinds whether they are attractive or repulsive all want 10s and if given the opportunity will try. Women usually have a more realistic way of thinking when it comes to social dating, they won't drop their panties at the first sight of an attractive male... but several men would drop their pants if it meant a chance with an attractive women.

 

That is completely false sir, actually one of the most false things I've ever heard. Men may lust after a woman out of there league, talk shit with their friends about getting one, even make the attempt knowing damn well they will get shot down but I have yet to meet the dude who is holding out for one. We are wired for short term interactions in the hopes of spreading our seed so it really doesn't matter who we spread that with just as long as it happens. Sure we may WANT someone hot but it doesn't mean we won't bang a not so hot girl. Truth be told based on attraction alone pussy is pussy plain and simple. And maybe in the past I would agree women had a more practical approach to dating but since they are capable of providing their own financial stability for the most part they won't sacrifice the concept of the ideal man any longer. Look at research on online dating, women are picky as fuck and not just the ones you'd expect to be picky but even women who don't have as much to offer are really picky. Men shorter than 5'9 have next to no hope of getting replies while men 6'2 and up get the majority. Think about that, the average woman is 5'4 so basically you have a lot of women who are ignoring men for dudes that are ten inches taller than them. I'd never seen that before, yes I know other factors may help but in terms of attraction the bar is quite heigh.
And if you think women don't drop their panties for hot men you haven't dated enough my friend. I'm average as fuck and I've definitely had my fair share of panty droppers in my life. Hell even women on this damn board send the kid naked pics on the regular

 

Wait, you say as men we are wired to want more than our worth... but then you complain about women being picky with mates. If you're going to say it's human nature for us to want hot chicks, why can't it be human nature for women to want tall men? We like a nice rack, nice asses, and nice lips for our women. How is that any different than what they want physically? Sounds to me that your real issue is being vertically challenged.

 

No I didn't say that actually, I said men will bang anything because we are wired for the short term. I never said its human nature to want to hot chicks even though it is. My point is we don't hold out and dismiss everyone hoping to get the top women while I notice a lot of women do.
Actually I'm not vertically challenged nor do I have any issues getting the women I want but I am observant and notice shit.
Look love and like who you want, I just don't get why so many women complain there are no good men out there when there are plenty they just overlook them for a select few who never give them anything but grief and low self esteem they carry over to other men.

 

And what type of women are you going to bang for said short term? Don't tell me your going to let your primal urge let you sleep with some raggedy 1/ 10 or 2/ 10.

Let me ask you something? Do you think the women you see as perfect for you match the same women your mother or sister would pick out as perfect gor you?

Possibly your definition of a good guy doesn't match a women's definition of a good guy.

 

I'm thankfully in a position in live where I don't have to make that decision but I'd imagine if I were horny and drunk enough I might. Well I'm not talking about a perfect match but my definition of a good guy is pretty much everything I've heard women say they want. Attractive, employed, good hearted, funny, and personable. Our whole lives we've been fed the bs that women as a whole care more about what's on the inside and men are more visually driven. It's becoming pretty clear the visual is what people care about most, the big difference is men don't go around trying to make women feel bad about their choices or constantly telling them the men they choose are not real women.
Thanks for your input its creating an interesting dialogue.

 

Maybe the disparity comes from the fact that, as you stated in an earlier post, men seem to be wired for short-term interactions while women seem to be wired for long-term ones (not true in every case, but as much as I hate to make generalizations, I do think we're more or less wired that way). So while a woman often seeks a long term relationship, she meets men who are only looking to get laid. However, that's not always obvious up front. I've met toooo many men who say all the things they believe a woman wants to hear in order to get what they want. They play the part of the guy interested in a long-term relationship so the woman will feel like she's met her match. But too often, once he gets in her pants, the fun's over. Challenge met. He loses interest and the woman is left with a bruised heart and kicking herself that she didn't see through the guise. And from my POV, guys are getting better and better at this deception. Online dating paved the way for that. That's mostly why I say there seems to be a shortage of good guys out there. You might have all the qualities I want in a guy, but if you deceive me, you're not a good guy in my book.

Another reason women complain about "no good men" is that too many men lead with the sexual angle when meeting online. Some think the way to a woman's heart is through their penis. And, I don't want a guy I don't even know asking me my bra size or if I do anal. Sorry, dude - that's classified at this point. You don't have a need to know.

Now, to be fair, from guys I've met, I know there is deception on the other side too. But I only know that from what I've been told. And I'm well aware that women do the same thing with pix. But if that's the foot (or boob) they lead with, they can't then claim that the guy led them astray.

I don't play that. When I meet a man, I'm up front about what I'm seeking. He can't come to me later and claim any different.