Average Girls Need To Stay In Their Lane

I'm only short on the outside

 

You are not allowed to speak until I see proof that you've actually spoken to women lol

 

After reading this article, I guess it is fair to say that there are SOME good points that were brought up. The article would've been better if the author didn't sound like he have an axe to grind or airing a grievance against the choice s of pretty much every woman. I say every woman because every woman wants a man that is the "total package." These women have as much of an uphill battle as "average men" do. I am sure you've all heard the joke about a man who walks up to a woman in a bar and says, "I've been looking for the perfect woman and you're it." The woman looks at him, smiles and says,"Thank you. I'm looking for the perfect man. I'm still looking." And walks away. I could've written this article but I would've been a little sympathetic. But we are all adults here, right? Which brings me to quote a line from A Streetcar Named Desire; "All right. Cards on the table. After all, a woman's charm is 50% illusion." Cognitive dissonance is the shield everyone, regardless of sex uses. We have to protect ourselves. There is a saying I had learned in the mid 80's, and there is truth behind it; "It's not the face you fuck, but the fuck you face." I am not sure the author is aware of this sentiment. But he made it clear that he is attracted to women he finds attractive. The heart wants what the heart wants. However, when it comes to sex, it's a different ballgame altogether.

 

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No city better exemplifies this article than New York. Me and my boys always joke it's a city full of 4's and 5's who think they are 9's and 10's. And only want 9's and 10's. Hilarious.

 

u cool and all but bullet points pls

 

What more do you want? Please be specific.

 

I blame sex and the city real talk.

 

So you were a mute when you were married, huh? Who knew?!

 

i would rather just buy a pass and drive in the diamond lane

 

Thoughts and comments.

The writer sounds like a prick who cannot pull because he had major issues which he is now pushing upon women.

I'm 42. Next week I have a date M-H. Not lacking for male attention and do not wear make up.

He's bitter, twisted and that is obviously why he's dateless. Me on the other hand, needs to find another hand for amount of men interested. It's not that hard, and if it is, figure out why it is. I'm no beauty queen, but I'm certainly not desperate and dateless

 

send him to my macking thread....he will get right

 

Yes indeedy! Need to spread that rep. It also might be symptomatic of this ne entitlement generation we live in now, where we feel deserve everything no matter what.

 

the problem is guys like him dont know how to communicate and present themselves then go off instead of looking within and not willing to adjust/learn

 

Nah. Sounds like fella believes women should drop in his lap and be grateful for being in his presence. Yes, he obviously lacks social skills and could take a lesson in your Mack school, but when you get to his level of bitter, all you will get is blame on everyone but him. We all as people need to work on humility and compassion, but bloke needs to be force fed it like an anorexic with a drip

 

Hm, I know a guy who I consider average or below.
He is a 3-4 in my book, yet he tries to pursue women who are at least a 7.
He will be 42 this year, but is trying to get with the attractive twenty-somethings.

So it's not only women trying to date outside their league.

 

I noticed this too, but I always thought it was cultural.

Not to "bash" bw (just recounting my observations), but a bw could weigh 250 lbs, yet wants the guy with the nice build and actually get pissed off if her love is unrequited. (at least the ones from my generation)

And the ones with a half decent figure were flat-out haughtily conceited off the charts

The guy with the same things she has: a half-decent build, a piece of paper from the college, a job in cubicle hell, was barely worth looking at

Ww don't seem to be as conceited as that - at least the ones who date bm

Maybe it's exactly because they're dating across the line? There may be something to the idea that women who date across the line are a little less stringent about their "ideal" than the ones who stick to their own.

I notice that mainly about nonwhite women who hook up with white guys. My sis for example, who is borderline tall for a woman, always had a problem dating short guys. I remember her comments about the singer "shaggy" (mr bombastic-remember him?) when she saw him in real life: "That little short, blah blah blah...") In other words, a guy like him ain't no bombastic

Yet the dude she's with (a white guy) is significantly shorter than she is, by at least half a foot. I doubt if she would've settled with a black guy that short

Similarly, asian women are notorious for "dating down" when it comes to white guys

And further, there are pics on this very board of really attractive ww ending up w dudes who look like shrek except they're black rather than green

... So maybe the "hold the guy to higher standards" syndrome only applies to guys of their own cultures? :smt102

just anecdotal evidence and observations tho. Don't ask me for statistical data :mrgreen:

...and it prolly goes both ways. I remember reading an asian chick recount why she dates white guys. She said among white guys she's an "8", but among asian guys she's a "4"

Then there's the example of black guys going for the fat white girl, though that stereotype is kinda old and dying out, without real life examples to point to

Anyway, just thinking out loud

 

Where do you meet most of the guys you date?

 

I'm on 5 dating sites. I tread through the field of crap until I find genuine people.

 

multi tasking is sexy as hell girl...get em